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| Degree of Relationships is Like Ways of Cooking Food
by silentsporty at 5/26/2008 4:32:32 PM
I know this sound weird, but I believe that the degree of relationships on how food is cooked. Here is my analogy on these things:
A great development of relationships is like cooking a fine great tasting baked turkey in an oven. The turkey has to be set to low heat so the inside and the outside can be cooked thoroughly. The bad thing is that it takes too much time. In relation to relationships, you need to take a lot of time to develop it. Know about the person, know their living, try to know everything about the person. It will take a while, but if the love still stays, then the love will grow strong, just how the baked turkey would taste great. On that baked turkey, you can add seasoning and other different flavors and spices when it is finished. In relationships, you can also do the same. ( I am pretty sure you know what the spices in the relationships are, but there are different ones, too! lol)
A not-so good relationship is like a hardly cooked ground chuck beef for hamburgers. The burgers would be cook so fast that it would look cooked on the outside, but the nasty red meat would be still be there on the inside. In a relationship or after a while dating , people would want to get involved with each other quickly and lack a little patience. Also, you could refer to this as a looks-personality thing. You could relate the outside of the burger to looks, and inside of the burger to personality. Lots of people tend to see that the burger looked well cooked on the outside, but when you eat the inside of the burger filled with red meat--it won't taste good. Same with looks and personality. You can look good, but it doesn't mean much if there it isn't good on the inside. The burger can be cooked bad when you rush things in a relationship. It won't work out right because you may find something bad inside that burger later on, whether it is red meat or it could be a piece of hair.
Short-term and dating around is like fast-food. Fast food gets cooked real fast, and they taste pretty good, but they are usually not healthy for you. These relationships may last for a few months, but nothing more. But I wouldn't say it is a fling or anything like that. But choosing a fast-food is more like finding some preferences for yourself. Just looking for something good for now. You could also say that it could the same effect as blind dating
Now a certain type of dating around is like cooking instant rice in a microwave! And I have a feeling you know what that is!
I will summarize this to make it clear:
Great relationships are liked well baked turkeysfrom the oven --they take a lot of time, you have to be patient, and you always have to be ready to prepare.
Not-so good relationships are like not well-cooked burgers--they may cook fast, but it won't be as good. This can also be related to looks and personality in most cases.
Short-term dating is like fast-food.--they are pretty quick, but they usually don't last long and the relationship won't be healthy. Sometimes it could be related to blind dating.
As for that instant rice--that comparison could be made to crazy weirdos and prostitutes! Could be related to prostitutes, some weirdos in strip clubs. Or pervs on myspace looking for an instant hook-up!
If you are single, that just means that you are fresh and still wrapped up in the box (or keeping yourself fresh). If you just becoming single, you probably putting yourself in a Ziploc bag, and try to stay so fresh and so clean! For the people looking for a relationship or a bf/gf, they are looking for that right person to cook extremely well. Some of the wrong choices are the people that don't pay attention to your directions on how you like to be cooked. The person that is right for you is the person that like does read the directions, pay attention to detail, and takes the time to help make things a work of art, and bake things to a perfection.
How good of a cook are you? Whenever you are ready to look, pull out the shake and bake and the cooking utensils, and show the world what is really for dinner!
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