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| Needyness versus denial
by msgardener at 6/8/2008 10:19:55 AM
I know after going so long without a romantic relationship I have a difficult time balancing needyness versus denial.
I am able to deny I have needs. I am able to isolate and adjust to being alone and taking care of all my needs and consulting with myself about how my time is spent . I actually love being by myself as much as I love being with a romantic partner.
Social activities are essential to my life. Am I going somewhere to find groups with coed activity. Do I visit with people or do I take my Grandson and ignore the grownups. I know I need at least a hug from a Man once a week or I grow very needy. I know once I get to the needy stage I am apt to settle for less then I am capable of relating to.
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