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| How To Date
by roryknight at 7/16/2008 1:06:11 PM
Up until about a year ago, I figured I was never gonna need to know how to date, but yea, that veil that covered my eyes was pulled off. So where's to start on the topic of dating to a man who rarely ever had luck with women? So I researched it, and a lot of it made perfectly clear sense and I even got some good ideas. But a few things I read that they said were crucial, just isn't my style. They said that you need to be "Cocky & Funny" to spark attraction. Which makes sense, but I'm the nice guy that dares not offend women. But then I'm left to figure out how to make moves that work while keeping my values intact. And the more I would read about all this, makes me think that people like myself aren't gonna get a date.
So I tried a few lines here and there, just testing the waters, and I found out that lines aren't the way to spark attraction. My personal idea of sparking attraction is as simple as two people clicking. And I feel that's best done when both people are completely themselves, which is why I have problems being the type of guy my research pointed me to be.
And how is a caring guy supposed to find women? I've tried bars and clubs, with zero result. So I tried the one method I know I could really be myself and not get nervous, the internet, where shy, quiet people can have equal spotlight to anyone else. And I know that I will find the right woman eventually.
What's the secret of How To Date? Find the enviroment which you are most comfortable in, and relax.
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