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by crimsonrose84 at 7/20/2008 7:26:51 AM
So a few things have begun to irritate me. If your interested in dating me let me clear a few things up:
1) There is no ring on my wedding finger nor has anyone branded his or her name into my ass. Therefore: I belong to no one but my self.
2) Yes I know I'm hot. But I also have a brain. Try complementing my intellect sometime. It will get you further then a compliment about my boobs.
3) I am not looking for a Replacement Daddy for Lexi. So stop feeling pressured. She has plenty of Male Role models to look up to in my family. If I'm dating you then you shall remain "Mommy's Friend" until your serious about me.
4) I am Marriage Minded. I'm at a point where I'd like to settle down with my LifeMate, who ever he or she maybe. That's right I typed that. However I do not see myself walking the aisle for another 4 yrs. So that leaves plenty of time to build a solid foundation.
5) My number one pet peeve: Lack of communication. We do not need to be blowing up the cells every day. However if we are in the mist of making plans to see each other the Gentleman in you should call me to confirm those plans.
6) I like to get to know you in person to see who you really are. Internet is emotionless and can be ill perceived. I don't need to hang out with you every day. Once a week maybe twice, more if you're up to it, is just fine.
7) I'm not needy or clingy. I do not need you to hold my hand nor do I need to cling to you throughout my life. I'm independent and I will do as I please, if you and I are getting serious doing as I please will be within respecting your wishes.
8) Head Games: Seriously if you start committing them you will be written off. I don't need another Sam toying with me emotionally or mentally. I will be completely honest with you weather you like or don't like what I have to say, I defiantly expect the same from you.
9) Full Scope Maturity. Simple: Be a Man, not a Boy. This applies to the Seriousness of life. (Example: I live with my Grandma, due to lack of economic resources. But before that I have financially manage my own household for a total of 3 years.) If you have never moved out of your parent's home and they are still carrying you, you are not a Man in my book even if you're legally over 21.
10) For now I just want some one that I can hang out with an relate to. I'm not to shack up with Hubby 2 right away.
11) I'm an intense person, some men get confused by that. If at anytime I am overstepping my boundaries, tell me. I'll cool it down. No problem.
12) I date like a man. When one of them wants to take the friendship to relationship I will respectfully stop seeing the others. I use to date one guy at a time, but after several failed datingships why put all your energy in to one person. Sluts sleep around, I don't.
I don't care if you think I'm a B*tch for saying what's on my mind. There are too many women running around with fake identities. Which would you rather have Brutal Honesty or a Sugarcoated World. Remember CandyLand is only a game.
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