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Feeling a little depressed today....
by asl_65 at 7/23/2008 9:34:45 AM


My company is having a company function at a local amusement park, and I thought that this would be a great way for them to get away and have some fun for a while. This whole divorce has taken it's toll on everyone. I emailed my children's mom and asked if it would be OK to take them for the day, and that I would bring them back the next morning.

I get a one line response, "We have plans that day." No explanation other than that. I guess I really shouldn't have expected anything less from my children's mother. The same one who told me from the beginning that she would "never, ever use my kids against me." Well, this is not the first time that this has happened, and I am sure that it won't be the last. It just sucks for the kids because they really wanted to go.

If you use your kids against the other parent in similar situations.....SHAME on YOU!!

Andrew


Comments

stylistic
7/24/2008 10:51:22 PM

Or maybe It's just bad timing.I've been there done that and sometimes if its just not your day, plans are made in advance. It takes time to get life reorganized after divorce.My son is 18 and sometimes scheduals still get messed up, because now he has his own plans also,so now we both have to check with him and each other.Try not to blame and think this is playing the kids against you.