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| What Are You Really Looking For?
by fullofluv at 8/29/2008 1:16:43 AM
That's what you have to ask yourself. You have to be completely open and honest with yourself when you put your profile, picture, and information on these Date Sites. Are you really looking for love, romance, companionship, or do you just want sex. Are you will to give yourself completely to someone you have met online?
Most people say l don't expect much from the people on these site, but then why do you put yourself out there. I will tell you why, because you are not being honest with yourself. You are hoping that there is someone charming, romantic, respectful out there, that's why you do it. The only problem is we get ashame when someone you seems to good to be true comes along and we get scared. Then why continue? Because we do want the fairy tale, we do want to fall in love, but the internet, online dating? How will l tell my family and friend l met him/her on a date site?
The truth is we must not think about what everyone else will say, but what will make me happy? For me l have met one person off of this site & l really like her, but she said l was too serious, but to me l wasn't. We laughed and talked about everything and for the life of me l could figure out why we didn't hook-up, but l remember what she said. I was this guy she really like and when she talked about him, l know it wasn't me, l just wasn't him. She still wanted me to call and keep in touch, but l decided against that, because l didn't just want to be her friend. She had to be true to her feeling and l was smart enough to notice that. Always be honest with yourself no matter what!
What l am looking for is someone you reads my profile and sees my picture and would really like to know who is the guy? Is he all that he say he is and if so l have to find out for myself. Serious women who what's a man to love, cherish, and treat them like the queen they are.
So l will leave you with this; What Are You Really Looking For?
Think about it and tell me your story. I would really love to hear from you. Until then, always be blessed.
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