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by shakti at 10/21/2008 7:49:47 PM


Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let our bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.

~Kahlil Gibran


Comments

mw2
10/23/2008 5:51:35 PM

Ah Kahlil. "The Prophet". I had that book for years. A very unusual, but well thought, choice.

shakti
10/23/2008 8:23:20 PM

Thanks guys! This is my alltime fave poem and sums up beautifully my ideals on parenting : )

nico420
10/24/2008 8:17:35 PM

I like it Sass- reminds me of the ideas of our ancestory as tributaries in the river of now. All the ideas laid down by our ancestors flowing down to our children to use as they need. The prophet is a great read.

skypoet
12/12/2008 9:30:47 AM

This is a perfect choice, Tara, that discriminates no-one. While we don't really know who "He" is I do feel It, Like a tidal wave washing over me. Working closely with children It’s something I wish could be instilled in their thoughts; I’m convinced it would take care of many a troubled mind, yes?