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re; what men want
by wileyguy at 10/28/2008 11:02:18 AM

i posted this in response to a thread.

i dont want somebody for what they have or what they can do for me.
soo........
what do men want?sex,romance,love or companionship?

so this is what i want.i really didnt have to think about it.

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none of the above......and all of the above

sex is easy to get
romance....is usually the guys job
love we get from family
companionship from friends

how about someone who wants us and doesnt need us
somebody who can see past our faults and us theirs
somebody who can agree to disagree
somebody who realizes it takes 2.always has always will
somebody who realizes time together and time apart are both important....for different reasons
somebody willing to walk beside you knowing the steps you take wont always be the same
somebody who tuly understands that its the thought that counts

is that too much to ask??

Comments
zeanah	10/28/2008 1:22:16 PM No Wiley...it is not to much to ask for. I want that too! But, it just is not happening. I must be fooling myself because I feel I have a lot to offer, but no men take me up on it. Always an excuse! Oh well...it's has to be out there somewhere...we know there is at least two of us anyway....lol
iamnumber5	10/28/2008 3:19:04 PM That is not too much to ask. To spend the rest of your life with your best friend. Also if one is a lot taller your steps will never be the same however 2 people never think the same or see things the same. Why because looking at things from different angles. So you still appreciate things together just the same.
crabberman	10/28/2008 4:39:56 PM good thoughts Wiley..I think we all want most of that,just think of it in different ways.I just want someone to be crazy for me,and to miss me so much when I am not there,and me to miss them also.To have someone call and tell you they really miss you and cant wait to see you again..or to say hurry home baby...and most of all..just to be really honest..with me and to themselves in what they want ,and need from a relationship.
mssouthfox	10/30/2008 6:15:39 PM This all sounds so easy..And I wish I could say I knew it to be true. but I find alot of men are only happy with the chase. once they get devotion they feel crouded and push away.
sassi_nepa	10/30/2008 7:02:02 PM This is great...and not too much to ask at all. What is so wrong with wanting it all, but not EXPECTING it? As long as it's appreciated and not taken for granted - on both sides...in my personal experience, we all fall into that "comfort zone" where we forget to really see everything that is done out of love. And that applies to everyone in our lives...wish I had a significant other to apply it to!
luvinlifetou2	12/28/2008 1:34:02 PM Unconditional love, total acceptance, that and a you men on a white horse to swoop down and carry us away...sheesh, why is that so hard? YEAH RIGHT... Okay..seriously, Wiley...nice post...thanks for putting out a serious and thoughtful perspective from the mans side...we dont get enough of those. Personally I appreciate hearing them as a woman..its hard enough to understand the other sex when we dont get feedback!!!!!!!!! Happy Holidays Hon!!!
wileyguy	12/30/2008 2:13:09 PM i thinkyou have a freudian slip there luv