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| Would you be embarassed to reveal...
by madskillz69 at 11/13/2008 10:36:20 PM
I have been a bit stumped about a question I have been wondering about for a number of years now,and I really need a womans perspective here to help me to understand.
I have already asked one female friend and I just wanted to see what other women might say.I had found someone on one of these dating sites,I won't say which one because it's irrelevent.
I found that when my ex and I would find ourselves in social settings with family and with friends
early on in the relationship,that when we would be asked how we had met,my ex would be embarassed to give the honest answer and instead say that we had met at a party.
I had asked her about that the first time she was'nt honest about how we had really met,she told me she found it to be embarassing,but did'nt really explain..I just kind of let it go.One day I had asked a female friend of mine about how she would answer under the same circumstances,she too said she would also answer that we had met some other way,that she too would be a little embarassed to tell her friends,family,peers the truth.
I on the other hand would NOT be embarassed...'who really cares how we met as long as we are happy to have found eachother'.
This could just be another example of how men are from mars and women are from venus (read that).
I feel strongly that the answers would differ greatly between men and women being posed with that same question.
I am interested in hearing from other women who would also find it too embarassing to reveal that she had met someone the same way...care to explain?.
I always appreciate a womans perspective on these sort of things,thanks in advance for taking the time to help me to understand this,I understand..it's embarassing..I want to know why is it embarassing?,how?
Do you think you would be embarassed as well,or would you NOT be embarassed by this?
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