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Soul Mates
by brzquinn at 10/9/2007 2:23:59 PM


I sometimes asked myself do soulmates really exist. I have been through marriage, divorce, seperation and dating; and I am coming to find out, even though I am a good man and so have been told to have that bubbly, carefree and down to earth personality.. I am always the one getting screwed in the long run.

I have dated and even married women with children, which I adore. I don't have kids of my own, not by choice, but therefor I have been told I am a good role model as a male figure on behalf of the women I have been with, that have had a child(ren), I grew to love them imediately as they were my own. That is just the type of man I am. I don't just accept the woman I am with, I accept her child(ren) as well.

But, back to the definition of Soulmates..
You would think with my travels through relationships, which weren't even that many, just a handful and possible less, of LTR ( Life Time Relationships ), you would think there would be someone for me. I am not feeling sorry for myself, just curious as to, why women say that want a good man, but when they have one, they get scared. Why is that?

Maybe there is someone that can answer my question.. and that question is ...

Soulmates, do they really exist and if so.. how do you know when you have him/or/her?, and also, Why does a woman want a good man, if she only gets scared when she finally has him and lets go?