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| past the past?please!
by wileyguy at 2/9/2009 9:22:47 AM
the past is just that,the past.whatever it was,it happened and can't be changed.
each person has a past full of both good and bad experiences.although the past tends to repeat itself,it never happens the same.all our experiences are what makes us who and what we are today.we have trials and tribulations as well as accomplishments and bliss.how we respond to them helps mold us but more importantly,they are experiences to learn and grow from.
i see so many people,....especially here on this site,begrudging the past.whether it be an ex or parent,circumstances,,,,,whatever.we all play a part in things whether we admit it or not.sometimes things just dont work out.at times,things happen merely for us to grow and better ourselves.whatever it is be thankful for the experience and learn and grow from it.
i see so many people bringing the past forward.how can you concentrate on a new relationship when you are still harboring resentment?its a losing battle and no new person is going to be able to 'fix' it.it must be dealt with from within.
the past cannot be changed but today and tomorrow?well thats up to us.let's concentrate on things we can control and leave the rest lie.
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