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lil black dress
by grace_ful_heart at 2/24/2009 10:49:58 PM


2/24/09
i had to dig my lil black dress out of the closet today and say goodbye to a dear friend from high school.
my friend whom we will call "bubba" was only thirty six and preceded in death by his sister leaving his mother behind. i am a mother and can't even comprehend my children leaving me behind. so sad am i!
life is funny at times. ya see when i got to the church it was almost full and the seating was limited. so i scanned the room and found a place with a harmless looking guy sitting on one end of the bench. ok so i sit down and he sits and i look over and *oh sh*t, the guy is my high school sweetheart! how funny is that? i haven't seen this guy in over 20 years. tehe, he's bald on top.. *snicker
if i didn't know better i would think that bubba planned it that way..he would have thought that was funny.. God rest his soul!


Comments
rockin_ron



2/25/2009 9:25:29 AM

So did you go home with your seetie or what...dont leave us hanging like that... Sorry about your friend

grace_ful_heart
2/25/2009 12:55:30 PM

no i didn't go home with my sweetie! i know when to leave well enough alone and i'm leaving that guy in my past where he belongs. it was just a lil on the ironic side.

iamnumber5
2/25/2009 4:01:27 PM

Hmmmm maybe your other friend too thought it funny. Great idea to leave well enough alone. You doing ok though, it is tough to endure losing a good friend.

italianlady05
2/25/2009 9:54:30 PM

hey Mary..I'm sorry you lost someone so young..makes one think about what is really important in their lives..hugs to you sweetie. And the old sweetheart? yup..he's where he needs to be, in the past.

pallyboy
2/26/2009 12:56:16 PM

How could she go home with her sweetie? He wasn't there. I hear he is a very handsome man. It's sad to see old friends pass way, even though we all will, one day. But he was a lucky man in the end, cause he got to call that woman in the little black dress his friend.

meh777
2/26/2009 1:06:27 PM

Aww Hugs hon, I too have been to way too many of these things in my life, Love you hon, you have alot of wonderful people here to confort you!!!

grace_ful_heart
2/26/2009 8:34:43 PM

thanks you guys! i'm ok with it really. we live, we die.. that's just how it is. some of us last a lil bit longer is all! and meh, you're absolutely right about the wonderful people. you are one of them.