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| What I am looking for
by nickiridge at 2/25/2009 9:22:22 AM
Well I have dated alot in the past few months I have found some good men and some men I will never speak to again, but I do not think I have found "THE MAN."
Many people have asked me what I want in a partner and I say the basics: intelligence, open minded, phyiscally attractive to me, healthy, stable, finically secure, and a high sex drive, lol. Seriously there are things that are not on that list that I would like to have. Things like he is romantic, he knows who he is, does not explain every thing he does, likes some of the same things I do, enjoys a nice dinner and treats me like a queen ( at least for the date), is sexually open minded, is not jealous or possessive, drinks socially, does not smoke, likes me without makeup sometimes, shows his emotions and listens, and laid back.
If I do find a guy I want to seriously see he will understand that I have dated many people and I am probably still dating until we decide together to be with each other exculsivly. If I am serious about them that they are very important to me and I will show them and would like the same treatment in return. Knowing that if we get serious we are contemplating being together for awhile and seeing if a longer term future is possible. NOTICE I said contemplating not I want a marriage proposal the following week. When we do get serious we talk about what we want in life and a partnership/relationship.
To me honesty is always the best policy and be up front with potential partners. I have no time for major players, liers, or silver tongue devils. If you are interested in me you can say sweet things all day long ,but your actions will always speak louder than your words.
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