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by yinyangkw1 at 2/26/2009 4:16:29 AM

Well, this is my first blog. lol
I am home today with my little boy who has a really bad cough. Poor little thing, he never gets sick but when he does....OH BOY!
I really didnt want to stay home feeling the way I do right now. Work keeps the brain busy ya know? lol
I guess I will get this house is tip top shape and watch Dr.Phil!
Well, better get tending to my little one.
TaTa for now all.
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By the way....Has anyone ever loved someone that they knew they shouldnt? I mean, you know that it would never work.
How did you get through it? How do you ignore the calls and tears without wanting to run to them? Does the pain EVER go away?

Comments
thunderstorms62	2/26/2009 6:11:30 PM Sorry to hear about your sick lad. Can't say I ever loved someone that I knew I shouldn't or knowing that it would never work. Sometimes the heart just disregards the logical whisper of the brain and then we end up in a mess. (lol) Ignoring the calls and tears could be done by simply staying focused on why you know it would never work out. Yeah, easier said than done BUT the pain will eventually go away. Good Luck!
wcwfan2008	2/26/2009 7:56:12 PM yes i did love this one girl but she kept on useing me like a yo-yo and i got sick of it so i called it off. no male or female should have to deal with a person like that when she called me i didn't pick up my cell phone because i saw her number and i didn't want to deal with her so i did my own thing and went my own way my (single way) that is and it felt good.
wileyguy	2/27/2009 4:11:34 AM i think we all meet someone like that at times.its all part of the growing experience.nobody ever said love is logical. dont believe everything dr. phil says.actually dont believe most of what he says.
kn12459	3/1/2009 6:21:14 AM Find me a kid in the Binghamton area who does not have what your son has... Sorry he got it too... My 5 year old is just getting over it.. As for loved those who we should not.. yes, and as stated above it does get easier and usually when someone enters your life you can safely spend time with and grow with... I promise it will get better and easier.
hurtindaddy	3/2/2009 5:47:23 PM It starts to get better when you recognize what it is you are relly feeling. You don't love this person because it is not possible to love someone does not embody the qualities you believe it could "work" with. It feels like love but it is actually ATTRACTION. This has nothing to do with looks alone, this involves how they carry themselves, how they act around you and others. Attraction is more powerful than drugs to a woman, in fact it actually releases drug-like endorphins into your blood. You literally feel almost high in thbis person's presence.
hurtindaddy	3/2/2009 5:53:20 PM The opposite number to attraction is AFFECTION. This is how women end up with men who they are not turned on by but are just soooooo nice and good to them. You will never truly love someone you feel only attraction or affection for. In almost every case you will end up dumping or cheating on the nice guy with a hot guy eventually, or taking bad, abusive or hurtful treatment from the cute bad guy. True love comes from finding someone you feel BOTH ATTRACTION AND AFFECTION FOR, and that is the hardest thing in life. I'm afraid that if you breally loved this guy, you wouldn't feel compelled to say it wouldn't "work". Thats your heart's "immune system" doing its job.
tlvf	3/19/2009 6:50:01 PM yep I do here you, just got off that deal with abeautiful person though i know it will never work between us, ya just cant get over it and yep youll drop at the first call and run, i dont know how long or what it takes to get over it,but i am sure, WE WILL SURVIVE, as we are strong and not going down easy, but if amy M was to call I would drop and run again, why i dont know but i do luv her, er something