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when your child passes away, acceptance??
by khoffy2hard4ya at 3/7/2009 9:45:15 AM


5years ago lady i was with for 5 years, we had child her name MARANDA,SHE HAD A UNDEVOLPED LUNGS SHE WAS IN HOSPITAL FOR 5MONTHS. SHE GOT OUT,I WAS ON THE ROAD WITH MY MUSIC,COME TO FIND OUT SHE TOOK HER ON PLANE TO WASH ST. TO SEE HER FATHER,WE,LL MY LITTLE GIRL DIED IN WASH ST.KICKER IS I DID NOT KNOW SHE WAS IN WASH ST.SO I GET PHONE CALL FROM MY MOTHER, WHO TELLS ME SHE,S DIED, THEN HAS TO TELL ME IN WHAT STATE. DID NOT KNOW SHE WENT THERE WITH BABY OF COURSE, QUESTION???, HOW DOES ONE UNDERSTAND, AN GET PAST A REAL KICK IN THE A** IN THIS LIFE??


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khoffy2hard4ya
3/8/2009 6:03:22 PM


georgevin
3/11/2009 8:10:56 AM

Prayer and faith in God is the only thing that's helped me in life. I don't know how I would react if I lost my kids. Only the knowledge that they're in a better place would help me. IDK It's too sad.

tender_touch
4/2/2009 10:31:54 PM

I believe that the hardest thing about life sometimes is that we don't get an answer or fully understand some things. That's when our faith and prayers, as mentioned by georgevin, get us through. Anyone that loses something in life...relationship, divorce, family member, etc., has to go through a grieving process. The very last step is acceptance and the longest one to get to it seems. It does eventually come though. My heart goes out to you and my prayers are with you. One day, you may not be able to understand it, but you will accept it. May God bless you.