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by greatwithtongue at 3/14/2009 2:58:55 PM
If you have been out of the dating loop for a while or even if you have not been out of the loop and are having trouble meeting someone here are a few pointers:
1) Don’t be a whiner.
Nobody wants to be around someone who is always complaining!
2) If you still have issues stay home.
If there are some serious unresolved mental issues in your life work on them BEFORE throwing yourself back into the dating pool.
3) Be honest.
If you say that you are just looking to have fun and not get serious then don't expect anything more or get an attitude if a more serious relationship does not develop.
4) Accept people for face value.
If you meet someone and you feel that they would be a good partner except, or if only, or if they did, or if they would stop, etc. You are only FOOLING yourself. Most adults are as they are and you should not expect them to change for YOU!
5) Have FUN!
Life is WAY too short to hold grudges or to have attitudes.
6) You find what you look for.
If you think that all men are jerks or that all women are crazy then that is what you will find.
7) Baggage.
Nobody wants or needs YOUR baggage. Check your baggage elsewhere.
8) Respect yourself and others.
If someone is not comfortable with the degree of intimacy (Mental OR physical) then do not be a butt hole and violate someone’s comfort zone. ALSO if someone chooses to end a relationship, be MATURE and as painful as the rejection may be accept it for face value. Do NOT become a stalker or try to get even with someone. Instead put you efforts into finding someone who WANTS to be involved with you.
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