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Where are all the nice men at??
by dreartist at 3/19/2009 2:18:20 PM


Hello everyone. Why is it so hard to find a nice person to be with?? Where are all the nice men at?? I see this question posted in the many personals sections on the internet. I also have trouble meeting someone via personals sites. The responses I get when a person turns me down, are "you are not my type" or "I do not think we are compatible." I am very open, sincere, kind, fun-loving, genuine and caring. I am also very flexible in who I choose for a partner. I am very cautious but also realize that I can learn a lot from my partner as my partner can learn from me. Perhaps it's the attitudes, personalities and high standards of women on these personals sites. I have learned not to be so choosey and picky when deciding on a woman to date or you just might lose out. The right, nice person might be right in front of you, but is cast aside or ignored because of one's attitude and or high standards. My solution is to be more flexible with who you choose, talk to the person via messenger or phone to get a better feel/ idea of him/ her and then if everything goes well, meet him in person. By being more open and flexible, that will allow you to find the right guy or at least a nice guy.