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| Why Does This Always Happen To Me?
by sparenone at 4/4/2009 1:53:07 PM
Okay, so anyway, I am a REALLY nice guy, okay? I always open doors for the lady, pay for the date, that type stuff. I never come back with one cross word, no matter how bad of a day I've had, and that goes for anyone. I try my best to never be hateful to anybody. I keep my peace, grin and bear it. I'm really cool to hang out with, everyone always has a great time. But it seems like nobody wants to be with me! I don't have any idea why, either... I make plenty of money, I always have a smile on my face, and I know how to treat a lady. All the girls I read profiles of on other sites are always talking about how much of a jerk their ex is, and that they want a nice guy, one who knows how to do it right. But, at the same time, THAT'S ME!!! But nobody wants to give me a chance! I don't get it... Girls are repeatedly attracted to the bad a** when they know in the end, it's gonna end miserably, while I'm sitting on the sidelines waiting, and nothing ever happens. I've only had 1 REAL girlfriend, and I was engaged to her for the last while of our relationship. And we even grew up together. We've been friends since childhood, so I'm not exactly an expert in the dating game, but I just wish girls would stop complaining about having their hearts broken and that they want a good guy, when they won't give the good guy a shot. Maybe I'm just being melodramatic, but I just want somebody I can chill and have a good time with. I want somebody that will grab me tight when something scary happens in a movie we're watching. I want someone that holds my hand, and kisses it while we're walking around. I want someone to be with, and to give all I have to offer. I know I may be over-romantic, but that's a hell of a lot better than abusive and cruel, isn't it? I know I have a tendency to get attached too soon, but is that not better than the guys that cheat? All my life, I've been a wanderer. I've lived in 5 different states, east coast as well as west. I've been out in the world, I know what the world's all about, believe me! At this point in my life, I'm getting older, and I'm ready to settle down a little bit. I'm ready to meet a girl that feels the same way, one I can have a serious relationship with. As far as kids go, it doesn't bother me if the girl I'm with already has kids. I'll help her as much as I possibly can. I just don't want kids of my own because I think the world's overpopulated enough as it is, without bring new lives into the picture. I have so much love to give, and I am just sitting here waiting on the right person to come along and accept it. Call me shallow if you want, but yes, the girls I like to associate myself with have to be attractive to me. I'm sorry, but I know that everyone's made for somebody, and I have my own taste in physical features. So ladies, please, if I interest you at all, please hit me up. If I like you and think you might be a good match for me, I will DEFINITELY reply back to you. Otherwise, all I can do is sit here and wait...
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