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20/20 Hindsight
by nenebubbles at 4/16/2009 9:24:02 AM


As I look back at the events in my life that I thought were traumatic and horrible at the time, I now see the gifts attached or that followed.

Deaths of dear friends and family members that tore my heart, divorce, job loss, betrayal, and rejection caused many tears and sleepless nights. I could not see or hear much at the time. But now I realize that many good events followed after I learned more about myself, the value of life, and my respect to those values.

When I thought my life was ending over 20 years ago, I had no idea that I was to find memories sweet regarding my friends and family who died, old friends' loyalties, better job with opportunity to travel the world, my part in correcting my actions and attitudes. I also got the gift of myself whom I could accept with all my traits (good and bad) and learn how to work to improve my character.

So I am using that same vision today to look at today and be grateful.

A really great gift was discovering many of you over a year ago. Thanks for your discussions, teasing, laughter, and inspirations.


Comments

jo52562
4/16/2009 10:24:48 AM

Well said! It is so true that when we go through those rough patches, we learn more about ourselves and we grow and when things are the dimmest something good comes out it. It's waiting for that good to present itself that can be challenging at times - but I know that it will come.... All in due time!
shorterthanshor



4/16/2009 10:56:38 AM

Very well said, Nene.......I think we NEED to go through some of these trials to know when we are truly recieving our blessings....

nenebubbles
4/16/2009 11:43:02 AM

Jo: Yes, it is challenging. Bev: I guess NEED is correct but I wish I could learn easier ... LOL

10snut
4/16/2009 12:40:51 PM

Those hills and mountains we climb are what makes us who we are. And they have made you a wonderful woman and friend. You are loved

nenebubbles
4/16/2009 7:57:58 PM

Thanks, Vicki.

newlady2
4/17/2009 5:16:59 AM

bbl bubble gal..**smile*

foreveralady
4/18/2009 10:02:14 AM

I know what you mean about learning so much.When my daughter died and others I thought God was being so mean,But all of the hardships I have endured have made me the person i am today--compassionate,stronger,etc.---ty for the reminder nene--hugs--fal

sassy_lassy
4/19/2009 3:27:03 PM

nene, every trial that comes our way is a lesson learned and benefits us in the end.. thank you , glad you are in my life....

newlady2
4/19/2009 6:40:22 PM

nene,, you sound full of life now,, but you did remind us... Its only this last year I have come into my own so to speak.. Nursing a very ill husband doesnt a wife make.. it makes ( usually) a nurse if not one already..I wouldnt change a thing, but do admit to being much happier and stronger in self now.. To all my friends, thanks gang...

nenebubbles
4/20/2009 8:40:44 PM

Yes, it is amazing what benefits come from life lessons ... and "coming into our own" is one of those benefis.