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Question on Dating
by cwatsupwitu at 5/21/2009 9:23:07 PM

Now, hopefully I'll get some honest response from you guys, be as honest as you are with your homies.

Now, when you are dating, how long do you usually date that person to determine if she is the one you would like to date exclusively?

I'll tell you a short story of my situation, lol...

Okay, dated this guy for 8 months, very sweet, caring, considerate, all around a gentlemen. He was the first guy I have ever dated who was full of chivlary cause I have never experienced that before. Well any who, dated for 8 months, figured he should know by now whether this is going somewhere or not, meaning by being exclusive, was I wrong. All he had were excuses, trying to clear up his debt, he has a responsibility, still wants to hang with the homies, etc... I didn't ask him to marry me, damn, I just asked are we exclusive, it's a yes or no question, am I right? Remember this too, he is taking care of what he has as in his debt and responsibilty and dating me at the same time, so what's the difference? He can still hang with his homies, do what he's doing now basically but at the end of the day or evening, we have each other, right?

So you guys tell me if I did anything wrong and be honest with answering my question about dating...

Comments
outforfun23232	5/27/2009 3:23:19 PM Some guys arent just ready to let go of their "homies"...and thats an excuse not to really commit. I dont think you did or said anything wrong when someone is really ready to settle down thats what they settle down. I'm just picky about who I bring around my son and that next person I settle down with has to understand that theres another person invovled so I for that reason I dont bring anyone other woman around my son..Hope that helped.
knowel	8/3/2009 1:01:54 AM It seems as if 8 months later he would have already made the choice on his own.He must have liked u enough for that or why else go that long.I think you should have asked the moment you felt something for him.probably would have spared your feelings.Were you both dating other people?You were wrong to wait so long to ask.More importantly i don't think you should have to ask.Sorry that's just what i think.You should date some one who is looking for a long term relationship and that should be evident after the first few dates.Remember your aggressive,you know what you want go for it.