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Girls in My Circle
by califgirl1 at 5/27/2009 6:03:44 AM


When I was little.......
I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,
And then I started to become a woman.
And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up.........
God would show you the best in many friends.

One friend is needed when you're going through things with your man.
Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your mom.
Another will sit beside you in the bleachers as you delight in your children and their activities.
Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.
One friend will say, 'Let's cry together,'
Another....'Let's fight together,'
Another....'Let's walk away together.'

One friend will meet your spiritual need,
Another your shoe fetish,
Another your love for music and dancing,
Another will be with you in your season of confusion,
Another will be your clarifier,
Another the wind beneath your wings.

But whatever their assignment in your life,
On whatever the occasion,
On whatever the day,
Or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair pulled back,
Or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself ..
Those are your best friends.

It may all be wrapped up in one woman, But for many, it's wrapped up in several..
One from 7th grade,
One from high school,
Several from the college years,
A couple from old jobs,
On some days your mother,
On some days your neighbor,
On others, your sisters,
And on some days, your daughters.

So whether they've been a friend for 20 minutes or 20+ years...
AND ONLY IF YOU'D LIKE TO...
Share this with the women that God has placed in your life...That make a difference....


Comments

jennyann71
5/27/2009 8:03:23 AM

I have one friend and her name is Mae, and she is my "Gift from God," She is there when ever I call in the good times and bad and we have Never had an unkind word, We have been friends for 45 years,

tjaneb
5/27/2009 5:43:12 PM

My two best friends, are surprisingly, young enough to be my daughters. One is my daughter-in-law and the other is the ex-girlfriend of another son. They are the daughters I never had. The latter even introduces me to people as Mom. We neither have family close so we depend on each other. She had a bad accident this winter. I was there for the ups and downs of the healing process. I gave her a shoulder to cry on when needed. She does the same for me. True friends like these are Angels sent from God.

sassy_lassy
5/27/2009 8:36:16 PM

years will not make a friendship .. sometimes it takes only a moment.. somehow you just know..

sugasouth
5/30/2009 6:29:55 PM

As with you in my life, it is someone who you will always remember and hold dear.

califgirl1
6/1/2009 4:43:18 PM

We have some people in our lives that we will never forget..I am blessed to have more than I thought possible...Thank you ladies..