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What makes attraction?
by fuddyme at 6/1/2009 7:01:48 AM

Attraction simply is the affectionate portion of looking really good.There are several factors that come into play when,one feels attracted to another.It could be that the person's eyes kept and held the attention of someone.Or perhaps,the blonde in the corner had a real nice booty that every guy stared at.
Whatever it is,each person has a different attraction for the next person.Whether it is the big-chested brunette,the nice bootied blonde,or the blue eyes of a sensous redhead,each one has a different attraction factor.
From personality,to their eyes,to the booty,to the chest,or perhaps the legs even,each person has an attractive feature,regardless of their looks.It's just that,we hardly ever recognize the fact that,they do have other traits that are more attractive than just the physical ones.
Even if we don't feel physically attracted,perhaps there is an emotional attraction that even I,can not avoid.


Comments
shell68_1



6/1/2009 9:10:49 AM

Well put my friend. The ability for one to be attracted to a person cannot be harnessed. I think that sometimes it grows greater or less when you get know a person. The most beautiful person in the world can have the ugliest personality and that makes them less attractive. I've been in that spot more than once. People say dont be emotional, but as you put it, it is that very thing that you feel you must persue. My emotions have lead one to many times to a wounded heart. Where is that fine line? Is there really a person out there that has the beautiful mind, and great smile? I don't think so. I'm reserved now to giving up on this. I just don't think its gonna work for me.
fuddyme



6/4/2009 6:16:31 AM

To often,one will wear their heart on their sleeve.this causes them to get hurt very easily and to the one that hurts them,they could really care less.I for one,try to put it back where it belongs but,even when I do,I stil geet the short end of the stick. To have had an emotional connection without the physical connection,leads to only one thing,another emotional scar!
fuddyme



6/4/2009 6:17:29 AM

To often,one will wear their heart on their sleeve.this causes them to get hurt very easily and to the one that hurts them,they could really care less.I for one,try to put it back where it belongs but,even when I do,I stil get the short end of the stick. To have had an emotional connection without the physical connection,leads to only one thing,another emotional scar!
shell68_1



6/6/2009 3:29:50 PM

Fuddy Your right. My heart has fallen from my sleeve one too many times. No matter how we say WE WONT it always seems to happen again. True emotionals or Romantics can't help that I don't think. I know I can't. I just say I think I Love too big for some people they can't handle it.