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Why is a good woman so hard to find ?
by sinder1977 at 6/8/2009 10:13:45 PM


This blog is for the fellas, Guys and I am talking to my non-player guys, why is it we have to suffer the injustice of being labeled a player by those who have been played. That's what I think is going on now a days and maybe even longer than that. It seems when ever a woman is cheated on or finds out she's not the only one the next guy she dates has to take the brunt of her emotion. Ladies we are not all cut from the same cloth there are really nice guys out there myself included, and I would say most of my friends are the same sure we may have been that way in the past but as you get older you want different things out of a relationship. Like having someone there when you need them, someone to talk with when shit goes wrong, being able to call her and say that you miss her and you were thinking about her and can't wait to see her. That's the good stuff the stuff some guys take for grantted and some guys never get to have at all. Ladies one more thing I know some of us might put on a good front and talk a good game but all I can say to that is trust your heart and and your brain it should be able to let you know if he is for real or BSing you. Well that's all for now, to all my singles out there good luck out there


AJD


Comments

genesis34
7/16/2009 9:50:53 PM

I see what you mean, but it's hard to trust again after you've been played..if you really like the woman, then you need to have understanding and patience, let her see that she can trust you. Then if it's meant to be, it'll happen jmo
slim_ace



7/17/2009 9:51:21 PM

Sinder, you couldnt be any more right.. and what your saying is the fine line between little girls and real women.. a little girl will have 1 bad experience and take it out on the world.. a real woman will think "ok, it was only 1 bad experience" keep her head high and move on.. it happens to us guys as well.. Ive been played, but i dont let it keep me from getting ahead.. dude, keep your chin up and walk tall.. stop goin after little girls..