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Are you tired of games?
by littlelamb36 at 11/26/2007 7:29:09 AM

Why do people play games when meeting someone? You would think that all the time and energy you waste being fake it would be alot easier just to be honest and open from the get go. I moved here from the East Coast am now in the midwest and trying to find a person who isnt jaded over a past romance or relationship is immpossible. Guys play just as many games as women out here. It is like being in a Different country. People will say whatever they think you want to hear rather than being upfront and telling it like it is. I dont think it has anything to do with me being from the eastcoast, that I am direct and honest when speaking to people. Yet, in the midwest it is considered a bad thing. Maybe if people stopped trying to use other people and were just decent normal human beings there wouldnt be this problem. I think people need to get over there past and if they are not they should not be looking to get into a relationship with anyone else. Heal yourself first, Love yourself for the good and bad in you. Be open and honest with yourself only then can you truley have a good and sincer relationship with another person.