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I don't understand
by missmmeoftheday at 6/24/2009 12:34:24 PM


why, after all this time, I am still so trusting, so believing, so honest... why I don't just say f**k it all once and for all....

what keeps me coming back to this dating ground- on and offline- thinking that I will find someone who really values me, who gets me, who wants to be with me....

I'm not a stupid woman. But I have been reduced to feeling so inept when it comes to dating and all that entails... it's very disheartening.


Comments
ohjoe



6/24/2009 4:09:58 PM

So sorry you feel that way. I understand somewhat though, it does get frustrating after awhile.
charlieha



6/24/2009 5:43:28 PM

Hang in there and hang back. It's better to be shot down than not to fly at all.
nab5055



6/24/2009 5:56:14 PM

You are a beautiful woman, inside and out. Your turn will come!! You are not alone..........
justplainoldme



6/24/2009 7:29:50 PM

i agree with u it seems alot of men on here only care about them selfs get a dog there want f. in the end haha what u think? '

browneyes6360
6/24/2009 9:33:32 PM

Keep on keepin on, it will happen! I almost gave up and finally, i found him. We've been together going on 19 months now. I know it can get to you at times, but come on, give it another shot! You seem like a really nice lady, and i know some lucky man will snap you up! Just wait and you'll see. Hugs to ya! and good luck! browneyes6360

rhondadazed
6/25/2009 5:15:55 AM

I agree with nab. You are beautiful. Dont give up. Instead,make list. write down all the things you want in a man, second, write down what you dont want, and baby stick to it. Also look at yourself and think back what goes wrong and decide to work on those things you dont like. Its very hard to find someones thats right for you. But dont rush it.Dont let the guys pressure you. If it is ment to be, he will still be there if hes worth a crap. And make sure he is your best friend , if he isnt and its just a booty call,it wont last and your wasting your time. COMMUNICATE!! Really get to know the person before you sleep with him. JMO.good luck hun and hang in there.~~~R

wileyguy
6/25/2009 7:08:10 AM

anything worthwile will never be easy.there will always be bumps in the road but it is the end result that we strive for which keeps us going.

missmmeoftheday
6/25/2009 8:05:08 AM

Thanks all... I'm not one for pity parties, but I just hit a really big bump in the road and just needed to vent. Thanks for the kind words of encouragement and for being the great, honest people you all are.

sapphire_eyes
6/25/2009 12:54:10 PM

Ah, don't give up kiddo! Life is as good as you make it, and as long as you keep yourself happy and a positive attitude, the person that God see's fit to be your mate will come into your life. It might not be tomorrow, it might not even be this year; however, do continue to believe in love and being "in love." There are Princes among the toads, we just have to take the time to apply the "Wart Protection Lip Balm" prior to kissing them! lol Guard your heart with care, but don't ever change and let someone sour you to going down a road that will make you happy!

crabberman
6/25/2009 1:25:28 PM

we all have gone thru that MC...it is very frustrating..hang in there sweetie..all good things come to those that wait..right?

foxy_woman_49
6/25/2009 1:51:11 PM

*hugs* hang in there

honda069
6/25/2009 2:12:25 PM

a big hug for you do not give up if I was younger
bossman2009



6/26/2009 4:42:02 AM

seek and ye shall find. i was ready to give up, and then i found her (browneyes6360) hang in there, it will happen when you least expect it... bossman

rockerbabe_0
6/26/2009 4:43:42 AM

We all hit that bump in the road sometime or other so please don't feel like it's all your fault that you are still waiting for that special someone to come along.Mr.Right is waiting for you just around the corner.

allanrw
6/26/2009 10:31:37 AM

All good things take time and in the end good things happen to good people
clearrivers3



6/26/2009 6:10:15 PM

Miss I have always read your posts. You give great advice & it's obvious you are intelligent as well as beautiful. Don't ever give up. Your just kissing a lot of toads right now but when the time is right, that prince will appear.

missmmeoftheday
6/30/2009 9:42:17 AM

Thank you all for your kind words and support. I truly appreciate it, and am glad that I can vent my frustrations here... and I feel much better.