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by pmlavoie at 7/9/2009 7:17:03 PM


I have heard much about a blog , but did not understand it until this site told me it is just journal writing of thoughts and wishes and maybe some dreams too, Well, let me start by saying that my goal on this site is to meet someone nice to start as friendly chatting first getting to know the person a little bit before going out on that stressful first date. I know people are real anxious to meet that special someone right away. Maybe to see if they are attracted to them enough so they can start a relationship right away, Im a patient person at times of dating and do not wish to rush into things. More so with people as emotions are involved.

I think for myself that a real relationship is not some fairy tale story of people sitting down for coffee and instantly deciding this person is the right one. Im not sayin that doesnt happen. I just don t believe that it always works that way for me. I ve learned not to let my pysical desires cloud my judgement on dating. As I wish more out of my life than having lustful times with women. I believe a good relatoinship is hard work ,understanding and the treating the individual with the respect I desire for myself and having that person feel comfortable around me.


Comments

lamborginigirl
7/9/2009 11:41:58 PM

i very much agree with you ...sometimes your physical desires cloud your judgement and you become involved in something that should never have happened...I am constantly telling people I meet on here I would like to talk first but many get offended and attack me for this...Anyway it is very good you feel you should know someone outside of the bedroom