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by lovable516 at 7/17/2009 9:39:31 PM
If a person wants you, nothing can keep them away. If they don't want you, nothing can make them stay. Stop making excuses for a them and there behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for anyone before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the person was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. So don't settle. If you feel like they are stringing you along, then they probably are. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid those who've got a bunch of children with a bunch of different people. They didn't marry them when they got them pregnant, so Why would they treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from theres. Maintain boundaries in how they treat you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a them know everything. They will use it against you later. You cannot change a there behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make them feel they are more important than you are... even if they have more education or have a better job. They are a person, nothing more nothing less. Never let a person define who you are. Never borrow someone else's partner. If they cheated with you, they'll cheat on you. A person will only treat you the way you ALLOW them to treat you. All men are NOT dogs! All women are not rats! You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if they don't turn out to be Mr. or Mrs. Right. Make them miss you sometimes...when a person always knows where you are, and your always readily available to them- they take it for granted. Don't fully commit to a person who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep them in your radar but get to know others They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
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