tired of men who don't think

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tired of men who don't think
by nblady72 at 7/24/2009 5:08:07 AM

well here comes another weekend . I may not be going out this weekend due to the fact that i am tired of meeting men who don't think last weekend when i went out i was sitting down resting from dancing and a man approached me and starting to talk which was nice but then i looked down and saw a wedding ring on his finger . so i let things go for a minute and then i asked him if he was married and he said no i was kind of shocked then i said does your wife know that your not married and pionted at the ring on his finger and he looked like he was gonna have a heart attack pulled his hand away and said sorry and wqlked away after buying me a drink . i looked at my friend and said i feel so bad for her at home more then likely with kids thinking she has a good man poor thing that is why i say i am sick of men who don't think so let me tell you now i notice more then men want me to notice . so now i am thinking about taking some time away from meeting men at the clubs . i kn ow i am cute not trying to sound like i am all that but god i amnot ugly and i am sweet i can be one of your best friends and a great women but why do i keep finding loosers.getting tired of being single maybe i need to find a new place to look for someone not in a rush to get with someone jsut want to get to know someone before he thinks i am jumping into bed with him or any of that .......

Comments
funwhiteguy	7/24/2009 9:36:38 AM From MY experience at the clubs, if you are trying to find a "quality" person there, you may need to rethink your strategy some. You are talking about places where alcohol and sex(ual) innuendo rule,and the whole point is the instant gratification. Have you ever tried to talk,forget it, the music is normally too loud. Even if you did manage to find a quiet place,that spot is right next to three other couples that aren't to concerned with what other people are watching them do. I find that most of us men don't do our best thinking for a deep conversation with 5+ beers in us.
vlad73	7/24/2009 7:19:14 PM yup,could not have said it better myself. not going to meet anyone in a club. I am single after 9 years, was not happy for several but never even tried to cheat, so aftera couple months i went out to a club and it all came back to me, the whole scene, write there i knew it was'nt for me, not while being single, with a partner great but not a place to meet girl in my opinion. where is a good place to meet girls???
moonseeker	7/26/2009 8:43:35 AM I so hear you on that sista...Ive kind of started to back off from the bar scene, u really cant meet anyone there, even at the nicer bars, like u said they are lying about being married, thats the only difference between them and the playas...First date there should not even be the question of sex, are there any real gentlemen out there anymore? I seem to keep meeting the wronfg ones myself, I am also attractive, fun, outgoing, work hard, just want to be treated like a lady..Good luck to you like they say u dont need to go looking the right one will come along when u least expect it..