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```What Is Friendship``
by califgirl1 at 7/30/2009 4:34:03 PM


What is friendship? What is the meaning of this relationship? I have often wondered what the answer was.. yet I have never come up with an adequate answer. Maybe because this relationship is a blend of beautiful and complex feelings, which may not often be described in words. Defining a relationship is never easy, as there are so many facets to it. However we don't need a bunch of words to make us realize the deep meaning of friendship.

Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words."
This heartwarming expression captures the essence of friendship. When two people share a strong bond of mutual understanding, respect and love it lays the foundation stone for an everlasting friendship. This bond just gets stronger with time; the trust between the two people grows and so does the attachment.
This is the beauty of the relationship and is the essential meaning of friendship.Being friends means being there for each other at all times, whether it's good or bad. A friend needs to be very understanding and give each other the benefit of the doubt. Ideally the meaning of friendship is sharing unconditional love for each other. However this is not an ideal world; therefore some form of expectations are allowed, but that has a limit too. The purpose and meaning of friendship is to make life's burdens lighter for our friends and not make them heavier.

The answer to what is the meaning of friendship lies within our hearts, because true friendship can only be felt, and not expressed. Something so pure and essential is not always visible to the eye, but is felt by the heart.

True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed a rare treasure.


Comments

jennyann71
7/30/2009 4:41:46 PM

A true friend is there for the good times and the bad and lovers come and go but a true friend stays and stands the test of time and they say if you make two really good friends you have done something that very few ever master.

opticaljl
7/30/2009 5:25:09 PM

Friendship is what any two make of it; if they each bring what the other needs it will probablly get to be more than friends.
alabamabelle31



7/30/2009 7:21:02 PM

Great blog and so very true. I would also like to add that a true friend walks in when the rest of the world walks out. Friends are the family that we get to choose.
lkvwldy



7/31/2009 5:05:32 AM

belle, that is so true.

ctprincess
7/31/2009 5:19:55 AM

Excellent blog!!! I would like to add that a sig other often is your best friend as well, I am just happy to be able to be one of the lucky ones to make that claim to fame.

catsmam76
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7/31/2009 9:35:58 AM

I do believe Miss Jenny has once again said it all............

bigmamano7
7/31/2009 2:15:31 PM

Great blog, keep up the good work, Vicki
stillgiggles



8/3/2009 8:37:21 PM

Thank you so much. It's absolutely perfect!!!

xfpguy
8/7/2009 8:40:48 PM

Stillgiggles- Got the nail on the head! Couldn't have said it any better than that! Nice-xfpguy