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why me!!
by nellienell at 8/13/2009 9:17:08 PM



Hey ya'll

Met a guy for the first time in seven years who was totally into me.....he had it going on.....was set in his career...had just bought a beautiful house...and he wanted me....

But, i f**ked up royaly....I made a big mistake after drinking one night....it always happens that way.... when something good comes along....all i have to say is this.....if you meet someone that you really like,be kind to them and respect there environment.....don't drink to much until your faded

A person can learn alot about someone when they drink...as, you can learn a lot about a person from how they handle certain situations.....you live to suffer the embarresment of the things that you did or portrayed,or you cannot control during the time you were anibriated...i did....and i'm still embarresed till this day....please learn to forgive those who make mistakes...and second chances are always a honor

I f**ked up a good thing....take my advice and drink responsible...it will not only save your life, but it will save a friendship and a potential life long relationship


sexynell01@[blocked]


Comments

spc711
8/14/2009 4:17:06 AM

Good posting. Thanks for sharing. But remember, it does happen to just about everyone a few times in their lives. Don't be to hard on yourself. Sean
wm1965



8/14/2009 10:54:46 AM

There is no question you can learn about a person’s character after engaging in excessive drinking but there are cases where a couple of drinks can help take the edge off of a stressful situation and allow for “free flowing” conversation. I hope you didn’t puke on his shoes. This has happen to me before. Needless to say, that date ended abruptly. The embarrassment will soon subside in time and you will have a great story to tell your friends.

nellienell
9/10/2009 8:57:23 PM

Thanks guysI know I made a bigbut I feel much better now knowing that others have made similar mistakes.Oh well, I still think about it every now and then and become very bummed out, but sometimes i laugh about it. I guess that's all apart of the healing process

delvontey
9/12/2009 10:00:35 AM

WELL, YOUR ONLY HUMAN, NOBODY'S PERFECT IN THIS LIFETIME, WE ALL HAVE AT ONE TIME MADE MISUNDERSTANDING MISTAKES, BUT WE ALL HAVE GROWN FROM THEM AS WELLL, IT'S APART OF US TO MAKE MISTAKES AS WELL IN THIS LIFETIME,CAUSE WHERE ONLY HUMANBEINGS, RESPECTFULLY DELVONTEY.