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"open your mouth and close your legs!"
by sams0n at 8/16/2009 9:42:01 PM


I just dont get why we always have to make things so damn complicated. I recently ended a LTR and now I am back on the dating circut. And it really sucks! I have tried to date two women and both times were a total failure. I tried like hell to be open and show sides of myself that I normally wouldn't and all the while I was having to fight tooth and nail just to get either one of these girls to open in the slightest. it just shouldn't be this hard to find a decent girl who actually understands the concept of open communication. no battle can be resolved and no relationship can be carried on without it.
I dont don't think it is too much to ask of a person to willingly expose their emotions even if it means discomfort to the other person. "hell, I would rather have someone put me on the spot by telling me how they feel oposed to shriveling up like a friggin' lemon....

Just as I said to the last girl I dated, "Any response is totally welcomed."


Comments

xbabegirl24
8/16/2009 10:49:29 PM

lol wow so u deffinitly need a girl who is open to sharing thoughts. I believe that if there is not open communication in a relationship... then it is a waste of time, exactly why my ex and i are not together, for 2 years he would listen to everything i shared with him.... and i felt like i didnt know anything about him... he never talked i asked him to share emotions and feelings.. that was a mistake.