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by sweetiepie74 at 8/17/2009 7:35:28 AM


I was dating a old friend from school.I grew up with him and was best friends with his sister.I live near him and his whole family.Everything was going great at least I thought so....we spent alot of time together.His kids love me and my kids love him.Thought he was the best guy.Well he went out saturday nite to watch the fight at a bar.told me he had to pick someone up well i went out there to see him and as i was going in he was coming out with a very large woman so i did what any girl would do i ran back to the car to hide and watch well he opened the car door for her and everything.I got so mad that I snapped the mirror off my sons car with one hand.lol Lets just say I just cant believe he did that to me.he will not talk to me and explain why he did it.I put my house up for sale a community i have lived in since i was a child.I just cant live near him and his family after that.What do I do?

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nrvhunk69



8/17/2009 10:15:49 AM

Drop him and move on. You shouldn't let any man get you down. He doesn't even deserve your time. He moved on, you should do the same. You shouldn't be ashamed in front of his family, It's his loss not yours. They probably know he's a liar and a cheating a**hole. Remember... All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on. Every person dies but not everyone really lives You don't know me, but I saw your profile and I thought I would comment...

latin_scorpio30		8/17/2009 11:47:05 AM

I think you're jumping to conclusions. First off selling your house was to a certain extent was ignorant. We must not rule upon emotions but intellect. Dating is just that,dating,you cannot expect much from an individual. Continue as friends but never have high expectations or jump to conclusions unless you've confirmed seriously about going out steady and only thereafter catching the supposedly liar and or cheat within the act. I say spare this individual and play it by ear u might be losing the greatest man that ever set foot in your life. If he comes back he's your's and if not, he never was your's baby.

semperfideliswm		8/18/2009 2:35:25 PM

I am a very independent woman. And after reading that you are selling your home and moving out of the neighborhood...I though that you must be nuts to allow a man to dictate the way you feel and where you live. You grew up in this town and so did your children. Don't let a man make you move away from it. Stand up...and be proud that you learned of his deceitful acts now and not later!