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by serenityfrank at 8/19/2009 7:06:56 AM


These are magic shoes and will fit you just perfect!
no,,,you dont need to see them or try them on to see
if they fit and are your style,and size,,
and allthough you think that you dont like
6 inch platform boots,,you will trust me,,,,,
,,just accept them,,
sight unseen,,today only for forever
/
SOMETIMES I GET MAIL that sounds about that silly to me,,and i am sure that you folks do also,
and allthough i am willing to write back n forth
with everyone,,,,regardless of match potential
and we can all use more friends in this world
i really dont get why folks try to convince you that they are perfect for you when its obvious that there is no match potential(total oppisites ect.)
and lie to trick ya into thinking that they are something that they are not,,
met a gal recently ,from here,that would only
provide the headshot from her profile,,
said she had no cam n such
turns out that the photo was fifteen years and over
fifty pounds ago,,,i am not shallow hal,,,but
dont date liars,,or gals heavier than myself(165 lbs)
unless they are also taller,i am 5,9,i just like and am attracted to average gals normally
i am not attracted to heavier women,physically,
We all have our preferances and i am not for everyone either,,,
/
Do folks Really expect you to overlook thier Lies
when it comes down to the actual meetup in person?

/And yes,,i really do want your comments and opinions


Comments
standup4me



8/19/2009 7:18:16 AM

I only have head shots on my computer but usually provide a full shot before meeting someone; also they are recent pictures of me. I truly am not attracted to small guys (like them tall with a belly and something to hold on to!) If I do meet with someone smaller, they have to work twice as hard to get me interested in them other than friends. Nope, not everyone lies. If someone doesn't like to way I look, move on 'cause I am what I am!

irishlady855
8/19/2009 1:12:02 PM

well frank you are at least honest in your comments. I agree with standup4me in that what is the sense in lying and you also. Why lie, we are who we are and lying does not change that. If a woman is heavy then she should just state that. But, remember some woman are not heavy all over, just in certain areas. LOL..

catsmam76
8/19/2009 1:17:21 PM

I don't care if it's the internet or out in the real world,if you are not consistently the same person and are a decieving liar,or think you're better than others I want nothing to do with you.

kinfire_rain
8/19/2009 5:52:58 PM

I don't believe in lying. There is no reason for it. I am who I am and no one can change that. I have my criteria of what I am looking for, but, I judge a person based on personality and beliefs before I judge them on the physical aspects. My fiance does NOT fit my physical criteria, but that didn't stop me from falling in love with him. Trust me, if you were blind you would not know the persons physical attributes unless told.

As in shallow hal, they were only looking at the physical side and saying ultra slim is the only kind of person to love - the movie was made to make people understand thats not right. You saying you only like slim women, that is definately shallow.

serenityfrank
8/19/2009 7:46:33 PM

hhhmmm glad i didt say that i only like slim women, i am physically attracted to petite to average gals for the most part,,but have dated larger, the main point was honesty and decieptive behaviors
nab5055



8/19/2009 8:02:04 PM

Frank You are my friend so I will be honest with you. Your comment about the weight does seem a bit shallow. Maybe because I am not small and petite, but just thought that I would put it out there. As for liars, I have met many........for me it is block and delete. I have no time for that kind of crap. Be honest or get lost.

labpup
8/20/2009 6:42:10 AM

Portraying something you are not is very deceitful and really serves no purpose ------you need to be honest and true with yourself and others and be the best you can be. If you can't be honest with yourself, then how on earth are you going to be honest with others?

serenityfrank
8/20/2009 4:14:11 PM

So True,,Its All About The Honesty,, and thats all i was trying to be,,,honest,,,, the AMA says the Average woman in the usa is 20 over medically ideal weight ,so that is the definition here,,for Average I Am Sorry To Any Who Have Been Offended By Missinterpetation but truly do appreciate everyones continued input

libra115
8/22/2009 4:31:59 AM

Everyone has their own preferences or standards of what we expect in our dates. I see nothing wrong with yours and appreciate your honesty. People should be honest in their profiles and with their pics but we all know too many are not. Women don't have a monopoly on being deceitful.....men are just as guilty. I know I've had my fair share of men with a "few extra pounds" who were over 300 lbs and brown hair which turned out to be bald or a major combover. You can only use the profiles as a basic tool to sort through the multitudes. Maybe you need to ask more questions before you set up a meeting? Maybe you should be less than kind when meeting those who deceive?

roguewriter
8/23/2009 12:28:31 PM

It isnt shallow to state your personal preferences. If his comment is shallow, then so are everyone of you that have ANY standards at all! Think about that for a minute!

duchessa
8/23/2009 9:37:09 PM

Hi, Frank... Why is that those that don't fulfill the "requirements" are he only ones becoming offended by the honesty of the poster? People amazes me.

bones01
9/6/2009 12:39:57 PM

If you know what you want, then don't settle for something else. You'll be un-happy in the long run. Honesty always works. Just pisses off a few few folks.

alrose
9/6/2009 1:07:26 PM

I believe in being up front and honest, but am shocked when I meet someone like you say. Had they been honest and said, I'm overweight, I'd still met them if I liked them. I met one guy, I just knew he playing a joke on me. It was a very uncomfortable dinner. I was so happy to get out of there. He sure had aged -overnight-lost his bottom teeth and it seems his wallet since I paid for mine! Had I known, I'd have picked something I liked for take out!

jennyann71
9/6/2009 3:08:00 PM

Being Honest and up front is a must: and then we all have a choice but we must be given that opportunity.