I'm still trying to figure out what women expect!

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I'm still trying to figure out what women expect!
by fredmx64 at 8/23/2009 12:15:06 PM

I have times I'm struggling to make ends meet financially but I always come out good. Recently I started helping this gal that was a neighbor of mine that I thought liked me so I went to some of her family outings and to make a long story short I wish I never gave her my phone number. I feel like she is playing me. She says she just wants to be friends. I've quickly lost my respect and am realizing guys and girls at my age are dating others at the same time they want to date me. This is like a nightmare. You have to pay money, prove you like a gal, and then, if everything doesnt go perfect and you arent the "sugar daddy" so to speak endlessly, YOURE DONE! What is this world coming to? I ask, are all women looking to drain a man and then keep moving on? If this is what it's all about I don't think I want to keep dating at times. Hopefully there's a respectful gal I will find out there! Feel free to comment as long as you are not trying to make a mockery of me!

Comments
blueblonbee	8/23/2009 8:49:27 PM well i have had guys do the same to me too date me then are seeing seeing others too, ive been used also thinking the dating sites are not for anyone looking to be in a relationship.
purpleflower43	8/25/2009 11:51:26 AM i think you are right and i hope you have good luck finding somebody because you sound like a nice guy....
im_geminigirl	10/17/2009 5:43:36 AM I have seen many success stories, from this site, two who lived apart sometimes in different states but have made a connection and are now living together and/or now married...but just to be clear it takes time (months) so you have to be patient...now to answer your question...I just recently watched a show that had what they called 'Sugar Babies' on to interview...That is what the girl u speak of sounds like...I'm sure you can google it...I personally have never been given or even ever asked a man for money...so there are women out there that will not ever ask for money...sounds like that is what your looking for...if so make a clean break the first time they ask for money...u might say in your profile that u r looking for a monogamous relantionship...all others pass me bye...Good Luck......gemini
sugarsugr	11/21/2009 10:15:24 PM Am some what thinking i have perhaps met a great match for me too .... but things change from day to day, one really never knows do they.... but if it doesn't JUST CAN NOT LET IT KNOCK YOU DOWN but Only for a minute or 2.. "LIFE GOES ON"
terrysz71	11/26/2009 7:46:27 PM I to have had some troubleing things on these sites,i meet one woman and we desided to meat for dinner,she hit me up for money for gas on our frist date,will ,didnt think to much of that,then we went out again,she ask for more money ,so dum me went on a third date to her house for dinner,when she ask for 5 or 6 hundred dollars to pay her light and rent.that was all for me .I also dont understand why woman send you a mail and want to talk and when you return a message you dont hear back,and the ones that do talk to you and get to the point they send you their personal e-mail or there phone number,that i do not ask for, but never answer them ,or the ones that send you a message and start talking back and forth and all at once you dont hear from for a mouth or more.whats that about.i think a lot of this is what we call player,man and women.i slso think some of them are just seeing how many people they can get to answer them for their personal fun.what do you think? I KNOW I AM HERE TO TRY AND START A NEW LIVE WITH SOMEONE I LIKE AND LIKES TO BE WITH ME.What do you think.terry