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WHY DO WHITE WOMEN DATE BLACK GUYS
by jtrois at 8/26/2009 12:36:24 PM


HELLO A again family i want you guys to know that i really appreciate the comments that have been mature in regards to this matter, however we all know that this a big issue in america , even though some of us might not even care , but there are a few that care and would like to have some answer, now, ihope that i can get some input from some people that have experienced the interracial dating game again you guys are really helping me with my book. thank you so much. i aslo would like to know what was that whole experience like when you were in public with that tall handsome dark skinned brother.


Comments

mimi728
9/13/2009 2:07:44 AM

I stared dating a black man because he asked.I enjoyed his company and we ended up with a good friendship.Big decision to cross the line.when white women date outside their race white men look at them different.As for public,white people gave looks of disapproval,black women gave glares and black men smiled and nodded to my man.

brush02
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9/13/2009 6:31:49 PM

asked most white women to describe there idea man they will say tall dark and handsome tall dark is their mind telling them what they realy want but because of what socity has told them for over 500 years they are afraid when the races were created who begain the myth that you should stay with your own race as old as man realy is we don't know what race we realy are. we are the human race on one big ball that the first man called earth, and it has been proven time after that all human dna has the same [no difference] beleive what you want but the truth still remains

artmo11
9/14/2009 2:23:24 PM

its not the color of your skin its whats in your heart i never dated outside my race but if i meet someone that makes me feel good then its on

meadowsbrenda46
9/14/2009 5:05:43 PM

ok I thought twice about commenting but here goes..white men..close your eyes..white men act bad and tough.but if i had to have a man that was there for me in a matter of defending my honor or life it would be a black man..yes i date white and black and I'm 45 so yes i have dated alot.but that is just what ( I ) think

meadowsbrenda46
9/14/2009 5:07:24 PM

and yes white men do look at females different that have ( been ) with a black MAN .. oh well such is life

98jeep
9/14/2009 7:46:05 PM

it's S A D !!!

98jeep
9/14/2009 7:47:00 PM

it's S A D !!!

lori68
9/15/2009 2:53:25 AM

I will tell you what I think, I am not be hateful either. I Think Black people are find some of my best friends are black, But I don't think GOD intended mixed races to date.

soldierfrmtrini
9/15/2009 4:57:22 AM

GOD didn't intended mixed races to date ? Ha Ha. When I see comments like that it reaffirms what I do know. Racism is still rampant in this country. I have seen black men with white women and other whites will stop and stare. I have seen black women who will only date white men and just like the whites the black population will stop and stare. Me personally I won't date white women. My preference will always be the beautiful black woman. They are sexy, beautiful skin tone and comes in many shades of BLACK.

hulkster63
9/15/2009 8:37:05 AM

Well my opinoin is that black men as a whole treat their women better than white men on average.Society frowns on mixed dating but if you find someone who really seems right go wit it life is to short for the bullcrap.

happy2lucky
9/15/2009 1:05:04 PM

not to be offensive but personally, i don't date anyone that's not white. just my personal preference.
gabriel832



9/15/2009 2:57:15 PM

Why is it the topic is always about white women and black men .What about white men and black women.It seems strange to me that every ad or t.v. show or anything that has to do with race they always show white women and black men.It's called social enginering.
georgia1961



9/15/2009 4:53:02 PM


cmisha
9/15/2009 9:45:35 PM

This is so weird - I really didn't know so many people thought it was a big deal. I dated a black guy in the early-mid '80's (here in Atlanta), and no one gave us a second glance that I ever saw. And if "God didn't intend mixed races to date", why then is there hybrid vigor??? (offspring of two different genetic groups healthier, better looking, more intelligent, etc. (on average, of course! but my nephew is certainly a good example of that))

arrowood54
9/16/2009 1:35:00 PM

Well as for me we all have the same color in side us and the almighty God made us all in his image. and he love's us all the same.......
blondie1921



9/17/2009 6:39:52 AM

I wonder what color Jesus was? I've never dated a black man but if I wanted to and was attracted to him i certainly would.Why are people so quick to judge we're all in the same boat and we're all looking for the same thing someone special. Who cares what color they are it's what's inside that counts!
tnfellow



9/17/2009 10:31:00 AM

>> Christ's mother was caucasion<<,, there are only 3 races on the planet, negroid, mongoloid, caucasoid,..would u want whoopie goldberg putting her lips on urs NO WAY,(neither does a black man) why do blacks want light skin, blue eyes, straight hair, small kissable lips/ white traits?? as for racial mixing, most whites have been decieved or had problems at home(retialation). ,why has white socitey "dummed down" the educational system for blacks?? Oh and by the way, whites were the first american slaves brought here, 1500'-1700's recearch it if u want the truth,,the best thing to do is turn OFF the tv set and think for urself!!! thats where the deception begins, look at MTV,,
delynx



9/17/2009 6:54:43 PM

White men are raised with the mind set a man is a man they respect themselves and their kind a Black(Africian American) Man is raised with family values. Most black men I've met have had a strong female in their life that has made a difference either from being strict to supporting them and Black men carry that with them while they date. I was married to a white gentleman for 23yrs happily divorced now. I have friends from all races from black indian asian A person should date whom they please God doesnt see color does he Jesus didn't care about sin he loved all sinners You really think he cares if you have a low melatonin level in your body

drmjr
9/18/2009 5:26:03 PM

As a Caucasian American, I think it would be very interesting to date, and even marry a black lady. I'm very open to it. Colors are just colors and if God wanted to, He could have made more colors of people. Let's enjoy the difference.

wagon_hollow
9/18/2009 9:05:14 PM

Black women are great and very hot. I've dated severial. I dated one black lady and she wouldn't date black men only white. She was slendar, hard working, and a lot of fun to be with. I'm from Michigan but moved to Tennesse after I retired and I would date a black lady right now if we were compatiable.
sugar45



9/19/2009 2:22:35 PM

I personally don't see any thing wrong with black dating whites and vice versa It should be an indivial choice.Me I date only my race because that is just who I am.I have had several black men friends and they have been wonderful friends.Plus they are funny. At least mine are.

sugasouth
9/21/2009 5:12:50 AM

I know why some white women date black men....because, as a whole, most black men are nicer. White men can't seem to let down the walls to show the sensitivity that most black men can. I've never dated a black man but have worked with them and they were always there to comfort me before the white men whenever I needed it. I get the feeling that black men are more sensual too. Am I wrong?

whatsluv
9/21/2009 2:43:51 PM

Delynx. I think she hit the nail on the head regarding strong matriarchs. I have had several white girlfriends who prefer to date Black men because they are treated with more respect and, especially, (oh gosh, I'm gonna get slammed for this) because Black men pay better attention to hygiene. I guess their mommas taught them well.