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| Cont from (jtrois's blog - amen brother) Remix of Why men cheat
by motorbreath at 8/29/2009 10:56:51 AM
Good points made by all, but let's ask ourselves what makes a person break down and cheat. Let's say there is communication; add a dash of sexlessness for 3+ years (chemistry gone if it even ever existed)top it off with a dash of "Don't ask don't tell" - u do your thing I'll do mine. Many couples (if they can still be called that after the above ingredients are used) stay 2gether cause of kids, money's tight, afraid of change, or whatever the reason. I had a date tell me I was cheating, cause I was living with my ex-fiance' under that situation, and trying 2 date. The original writer of this blog makes a good point about the pain we men cause unknowingly - even trying 2 do the right thing. God made men and women different for a reason ("So we could fill in each others gaps" - Rocky Balboa), but in this day and age those lines have been blurred for so long, because women have been thrust n2 a man's world (Not that its bad for women 2 become powerful leaders, but it comes with a price - actions have reactions, most of the time not good); all men aren't able to be the powerful overwhelming kings they once were (Give and take - good, but again with a price). Just like the ignorance of prejudice, we're going through a transitional period. I think it's only gonna get worse before it gets better. God bless u all, and keep the faith. If u r not religious, at least read the lord's prayer and the serenity prayer to help bring some direction n2 your lives. Another point 2 be made is that women usually respond with emotion (Not all), and men usually respond with thier heads (Not always with the 1 up top - lol). Peace out every1, and may God 4give us all for our daily sins and never give up on us even though we might deserve it at times - Do the right thing from your heart and may God bring u the 1 in your life 2 complete u - amen.
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