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| Who feels the stress most in a breakup.
by planolarry at 8/30/2009 6:18:56 AM
I recently read an article which had the perspective that the man feels the most anxiety and stress from the failure of a marriage or breakup of a loving relationship.
In looking back at my life, I have to say that while both sides feel pain and suffering, I think that the perception is that the man does not feel it as strongly, and that was not true with me.
I do not believe in claiming to know what someone else's feelings are, or how strong they are, but in my case I was devastated by the loss of the person that I loved.
Even when I initiated the breakup, it happened because I found an action on the part of my spouse that I could not accept or live with. The situation was so unbearable that I was faced with the choice of accepting it as is, or taking action that led to the split with that person.
I long for a loving relationship with a woman who is a good communicator because the lack of communications appears to have led to divorce in my case.
I would be interested in your feelings.
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