WHY DO GUYS ALWAYS HAVE TO CALL THE GIRL FIRST???

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WHY DO GUYS ALWAYS HAVE TO CALL THE GIRL FIRST???
by one_luv18 at 8/31/2009 6:17:53 AM

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I'm just curious to know why is it that the guys always have to call the girl? I've gotten a few numbers from girls on here and I call them first an texts them first but why do I always have to keep making the move? Then when I stop calling cuz there not putting in the effort they write me on here and say "why havnt you called me?" I mean the phone works both ways... So please tell me why I'm putting in all the effort when a relationship is suppose to be 50/50???
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angelsteph79	8/31/2009 1:28:55 PM if a girl new your number they probly would call you lol or they think its the guys resposibility to call first lots of woman feel if you call them then your interested but if they gotta call you then there bothering you or they look desperate eather way bring it up to them and ask why if they dont tell you then there not worth it anyways
bossdaddy26	8/31/2009 2:26:03 PM Most dudes save em whenever the opportunity knocks. See me, I trust no one, so you better believe that if I put in all of the effort and it's one sided than you'll catch me one siding plenty of them. However, if it's mutual it's mutual and they'll call you as long as you don't call them first. In all reality 50/50 is a very rare occasion. So keep your head up and seperate the real from the fake. I don't need em to front. I need em real.
chi_towngirl	8/31/2009 2:58:19 PM Well speaking about myself personally, I'm just stubborn lol Once I give a guy my # it's on him to call first even if I have his digits. However once he makes the first move then I have no problem calling after that.
latina_princesa	8/31/2009 3:19:38 PM If I am interested in a guy and he gives me his number, I will make the first call. He obviously wants me to call if he gave me his number. I am not a shy person any way....A quote I really like says it all.. "The squeaky wheel gets the oil" Go out there and get what you want!!!!!
cassandramae	8/31/2009 4:42:30 PM Personally if I have the guy's number I'll call.
rosaxoxo	8/31/2009 5:56:59 PM lol i hella agree wit chi towngirl. i'm stubborn and a hot head but yea, if i had dudes number i would text first (sorry i dont talk on the phone much) lol
sue1054	9/1/2009 10:25:19 AM I think alot of us are stuck in the old way and I feel like I am coming on to strong when I make the first move I feel like me calling first is my way of scaring a guy off.
ungod	9/1/2009 10:55:48 PM females have many reasons why they dont call 1st. one of them is that us dudes have a bad rap. were labeled as dogs,cheaters and so forth so women keep there guards up for let downs. females by nature r idealest they dont want extra drama dudes give out there number and there baby mama ans the jack.history has tendencies to change one way was not calling frist and stop being played.so did i make knowledge born and get some browny points lol o before i forget women also play GAMES they cant call let alone be on here when o boy is around