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We need to stop lying to ourself ,( women )
by spoitier77 at 9/2/2009 8:13:26 PM


It seem like everyone is writing books trying to educate women about themselves and how not to get cheated on. with good intention I would say but really the information giving are always things we already knew I mine if you are really honest with yourself you would see that you knew almost the very moment your man started cheating o you. yes it hard to admit .
But you know what? men really believe they are the ones lying to us but in the reality of it all . we really lie to ourselves wanting to believe what he says come on ladies . I know this because I was in a doing the same thing for years .
Many people would say this is bull shit but I am here to let you know that there are a number of things we do wrong has women, One of the main thing we do is allow men to walk over us because we don’t want to be or end up alone if you would like to add to this feel free.


Comments

gr81wmnman
9/4/2009 7:40:51 AM

Check out my middle paragraph on my page and you will see how we can stop people from being cheated on.... Just my opinion but I also agree with you..

jennyann71
9/6/2009 6:59:07 PM

Yes, you are right We teach people how to treat us.

catsmam76
9/6/2009 7:26:15 PM

Nothing like a good old "self help" book to part you and your hard earned money for no return....

ctprincess
9/6/2009 11:24:27 PM

I make it very clear to me that I am in a relationship with that I will not accept certain behaviors, one of them is being cheated on. I spent too many years being abused and I will not accept being treated like a second class citizen anymore. I did it for my kids but they are now grown and out of the house, so I expect to be treated with respect. ctp

alrose
9/7/2009 1:00:44 AM

True! I had one of my kids tell me I'd been a doormat for years. I din't know. I thought I was doing things out of love, but looking back it was all about control. Now I would not take it. I can support myself, so I don't need anyone to jump in and "save" me! I'll never allow myself to be abused again either.

prellkn
9/7/2009 2:20:43 AM

Nobody is the same my situation is different from yours what you want right now could change later todays light could be tomorrows darkness who really has the absolute answer?

catsmam76
9/7/2009 7:26:57 AM

No one is talking about absolute answers, just matters of control and abuse that no one woman or man should be subject to.