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| Games Are Only For Those Who Like To Have Fun...
by splell at 9/5/2009 1:54:21 PM
If I've learned one thing about men and women it is this. We are not that different overall. But in the few areas that we are different, we are COMPLETELY different.
For instance... Men know what they WANT. Women know how they want to FEEL. Men aren't naturally good at feeling and women aren't naturally good at getting what they want.
Now before you start throwing things at the screen, I want you to take a moment to think about this. Women, when you are talking to your man, does he want to talk about his feelings, or does he want to talk about what he "wants" out of the relationship?
Men, when you are talking to your woman, does she talk to you about what she wants or how you are making her feel?
Relationships would be a lot easier if men would make their women feel the way they want to feel. It's no secret how women want to feel... They want to feel beautiful (not told they are beautiful); they want to feel loved (not be told they are loved); they want to feel wanted (not told...I think you get the idea); they want to feel like they are the only one for them; they want to feel like you will be there forever... and the list goes on and on.
The point is that men and women are not that complicated. You just like to think it is a "complicated" issue because then you feel justified in b*tching to your friends about your girl's "issues" that she has or your guy's "issues" when it is actually YOU!
If you feel things are complicated, then maybe you should simplify things and start making your girl FEEL like a woman. This is where it gets fun because there is no "specific" way to do this. You men get to use your creativity.
Women you get to figure out ways to give men what they want, but you get to spice it up in a way that makes you feel good. In the end everybody wins. If you're saying, "Well I don't want to play games!" Well I have one response for you....
Games are for people that like to have fun! So if you don't like to play games than go back to your boring relationship and keep b*tching to your friends about how your "lover" doesn't "love" you and I'll stick to my games and have a glorious time 
To Relationship Successes!
Tyler
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