Can a man and a woman be just friends?

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Can a man and a woman be just friends?
by ayon79 at 9/8/2009 7:53:02 PM

You know what I'm tired of this...
If I dont answer ur email! I'm stuck up!
If I say thanks but I'm not interested!
I'm full of myself!
If I say Thanks..
Then It means I want to talk even if im only trying to be polite!
And must want more..
Either way! probably no one reads profiles before they wink so what does it matter!!!
If I say I want to be friends it only takes a few conversations online or on the phone to start talking sex.. Even when I dont want that kind of friend!
I cant win.. so think what you want!

Comments
chasingshadows	9/8/2009 8:13:16 PM Nope. And you talk about sex with your girl friends so what's the big hangup?
jns1837	9/10/2009 9:37:57 AM Yes men can just be friend but not all guys. there is not many out there.
ayon79	9/10/2009 1:19:39 PM Chasingshadows- my hang up is Only that I am more reserve about my sex life than that! I only talk with a few Close friends about it. not some new person that will chat me up for a few days!! and move on to next profile Once they see that its not going to happen! If thats the case go to OBC!! ins1837- Your right about that! just cause we're singles doesn't mean we are all looking for a romantic relationships. I am not right now! just ppl to talk too. thanks for reading my ramblings! lol
jns1837	9/10/2009 2:06:24 PM your right about the OBC comment and sex talk is something that you just don't drop on some one unless you really know that person and even then its still left up to how comfortable you are with that person
vois	9/11/2009 10:08:34 AM YES they can but it depends on the man. there are alot of little boys in grown men bodies. some men just need to grow up. but a real man can be friends with a woman.
amykbaby	9/11/2009 12:30:56 PM The only way men and women can be friends is if they grew up together. Men that claim they want to be your friend could care less about what your saying and just want to screw you!!!!!!!
poet1969	9/11/2009 5:57:48 PM I am friends with women. I find that a woman is easier to talk to about certain things that are going on. It doesn't have to involve sex ( physical or mental ). All you have to have is respect for one another!
littleredhot	9/12/2009 8:06:40 AM I believe it's possible for men and women to be just friends. I have a lot of male friends that I do not have a sexual relationship with. It's easier for me to get along with men than with most women, although my BEST friend is a female.
j____	9/12/2009 2:43:56 PM I would say no in the majority of cases. More specifically that the majority of men out there can not be friends with a woman and if they are and that woman offered sex, that those men would jump at it. I do believe that some men can just be friends with a woman, and you don't have to grow up together. One of my best female friends I met only four years ago, and she is the one that I go to for advice.
bmine121	9/14/2009 8:17:54 PM It is possible for a man and a women to b friends. I rather be friends with a man than a women.
halfbreedndn	9/17/2009 10:54:00 AM Somebody needs to write a song about it,." Oops! we were friends, but got drunk and screwed!"
puppygowner	9/22/2009 4:20:49 PM There are many simularities between most guys but, usually it is the ego that rules the sexual issue. Not all men think they are God's gift to women. If treated with respect any two people can be friends. Sometime the boundries must be set early but, once in place, if they are humble enough to except the limits, two people of any sex can be good friends.