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by mykaleej at 9/9/2009 6:06:55 AM


Okay, so I thought I was going to find at the very least a date on this site and it has yet to happen. It is my fault though... for not acting on some hits that I've had. It's not for lack of a will to go out with someone, but it's a lack of time (surprisingly enough). Before I signed on I seemed to have all the extra time I could handle, and more! I've been preoccupied or suffering from lack of sleep or busy with my daughters, etc. Also, it has come to my attention that I do not have a clue how to begin a 'basic first date' anymore! This is a scary feeling for me. Not that I was a "Don Juan" or a real ladies man when I was younger, it just seemed so much more natural to me. I never gave it a second thought. I think I was good-looking enough to always end up with a pretty girl when us boys got together and went out bar-hopping back in the days when I wore Levi big bells, 32 inch waist... or cut-offs when we'd party on the Jersey shore. A small fire, my guitar at my side, sea shell necklace tight around my well-tanned neck, long sun-bleached blond hair and a bottle of Mad Dog 20/20 (Mogen David wine). Hell I guess I thought I was a ladies man back then! Sounds like I had a pretty big head, I know. But that was then, this is now and I'm not him anymore...physically I'm not and mentally too, as I've been pretty much tamed and house-broken since then LOL! And I wonder why I don't have any 'friends' on this site yet? Every time I visit someones profile, I see they have friends. I don't spend enough time here I guess. I don't chat alot either. Again, nobodys fault but mine. Just some passing thoughts that I've...thunk. Any and all advice will be welcomed, thanks.


Comments

lovethelake17
9/10/2009 7:02:49 AM

Well, good 'thunking'. It sounds like you've answered your own question, too. And I bet you'll get your inner Don Juan back. Whether or not you thought you were one when you were younger. We all have a bit of him in us. Good luck.