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It seems my blogs have not been action driven
by marc80 at 9/15/2009 3:55:16 AM

Hi to all reading my blog

Instead of boring you with nothing let me talk about something.

I have noticed women and men for the most part think in different ways. Women want a relationship men usually want just what they can get for a night or two and leave. Men are not as committed to relationships as women in general. Personally I think if a man can brag (this would be embarrassing if it were me) about how many partners they have had. If a woman is looked down upon for that why isn't a man? What is good for one is good for both. When I talk to people they say you sound too good to be true. NO that is not true. I am more of a throwback of the 50's 60's generation don't drink, smoke or do drugs. Not looking for a non-monogamous relationship like most men are. Looking for a nice person to share fun times with I have no hidden agendas unlike most of my male counterparts.

I am interested in seeing what people think of the women/ men debate?

Hope to hear from you soon.

Comments
muttmomma	9/15/2009 5:40:23 AM Very well written, and a debate that has been going on for years and I fear will never be solved. I believe in fairness. Equality. I have a mind and know how to use it. I am not ashamed to admit I like some action now and then. I am not looking for a commitment from every guy that comes down the pike, but I am going to have some fun along the way. Dr Seuss said: "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." I think it is good advice.
catsmam76 online now!	9/15/2009 6:39:50 AM Observing the different standards and more importantly the differences in the way men and women think,communicate and react to the society around them is the begining of finding that wich you desire.The debate will rage on but once you can see the differences you can begin to understand the other's point of view better and this will help you find what you're looking for.You do seem to be a very unique man and your thoughtful questions do more to get you noticed than any other thing you could possibly do on this site.Even if there3 are no real concrete answers.The ladies love a man who puts in the time and effort to better understand them....Right ladies???????
jennyann71	9/15/2009 7:34:59 AM This debate has been going on from beginning of time and we women have made a decent society but the key is to find that special man and the great Love and then if he is really into you a man will stop at nothing to win his lady and that is how a decent society even in the ole west became a tamed society , Interesting concept and theory BUT one that has been Proven.
marc80	9/15/2009 9:20:44 AM Unfortunately, I agree. Not everyone is committed to everything. There are times there is a right period for having fun. It is scary that most women have the same problems finding a decent guy. "I hear all the time men are not great why am I different" I AM NOT THEM!!!!!!!! I would rather hurt myself than hurt a woman.
marc80	9/15/2009 9:24:30 AM I know there are differences I do not feel that makes me know what I desire. When people get to know me better they will see I am all about equal with everything. As I have said in the blog it is not right that a man is a hero and a woman looked down upon for the amount of partners they had. It was something I have been thinking of and maybe someone had/or has some perspective. I always wanted to know why things were certain ways. Try to know as much as I can about things.I want to understand everyone I come into contact with not just women. Thanks for the comment.
marc80	9/15/2009 9:29:28 AM I realize you should fight for what you have. Men tend to go too far with controlling (protecting women). Sometimes men are really great but women are turned off by fighting for them most of the time. I would think that would turn you off. If someone is willing to talk or do something else fine not fighting. Someone could get hurt and or land in jail. It seems the answer is not perfect.