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It seems women have caught on to most guys
by marc80 at 9/15/2009 4:44:56 AM


I was just on a topic which one of my friends posted on. I noticed the topic had to do with men and what women don't want. Kind of nice to see the men that others know are (manipulative, underhanded, scheming)cannot trick women. Finally found my reason why I do not post on the men forums. Who wants to be lumped in with the players? I know who I am and what I need in a relationship and what I can give to a relationship. Men on the other hand worry about weight, and money. To be honest, most men are way too much for a woman to handle with all their drama (secrets and four kids from four women). It is kind of funny to see men complaining about women when it is really the men that are the problems. This is not directed at all men but most of the ones that populate the forums. Here is a great example, a woman new on the site might be 18 will ask "anyone in the area"? Some men in the 18-22 age range will respond you will see people in my age range then people in their 30's. I am wondering if it is the mentality of a guy in in his 30's to think he can still get an 18 year old or he figures they are more desperate? Either way it is kind of freaky.

Very enlightening conversation.

What are your thoughts on men and how they really are not all that they say they are and women being treated as unworthy?


Comments

libra115
9/15/2009 7:47:53 AM

It would be nice if women could say, "We've come a long way, baby" and truly mean it but this is still a man's world. I won't say there aren't any good men but most are NOT what they claim to be and if they do know how to treat a woman, most don't feel it's worth the extra effort to do so. I'm all for the Amazon society where woman are in control and men are only kept around as sex slaves.

marc80
9/15/2009 9:35:25 AM

Yes, it would be nice. I don't like the fact that is is a men's only world. Behind every good man is a good woman. That is the usual comment that I hear. Most men are not good since they are trying to be someone they are not. If they are the right person that is half the battle. The least they can do is treat a woman the right way. That sounds like the opposite of the Asian countries. LOL Sounds good though. Some opposites could help.

edsel550
9/16/2009 12:43:26 PM

lucy, you would lov to hav a slave

marc80
9/16/2009 1:13:33 PM

My point is why should a woman be a slave to a man? No one should be slaves to either sex.
tyleepaige



9/16/2009 2:40:49 PM

I agree with u u should be faithful honest and not want one niters or worry bout looks it should be about if that woman does everything she can do to make u happy

romantic4life
9/16/2009 2:44:51 PM

No one should be a slave to another. That's just ridiculous. The better men seem to be more caring and tolerant, that's for sure, and they aren't pushy.

marc80
9/16/2009 3:58:54 PM

All you need is a woman that is will to worry about you and love you unconditionally despite whatever faults you have. People who look to cheat, and hook-up are not being true to themselves. Looks really are not that important.

marc80
9/16/2009 4:00:46 PM

I meant if women have been treated like slaves by men then the reverse should take place as well. I am all about equal. In my way of thinking I am FAR FROM PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can only be tolerant of others. Pushiness is a turnoff.