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What is a girl to do?
by kellee217 at 9/16/2009 5:44:34 PM


I have met some nice and not so nice men.Why is dating so hard?I think it was easier when I use to drink!Is it me or what? I want what everyone else does(ok maybe not what some want)I just want a man who wants to be around me.Not 24/7.Am I ugly?I don't get some of these men.Hav'nt we played these games in our younger yrs.Hmmm


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theothergman
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9/16/2009 6:48:26 PM

Kellee, Of course it was a lot easier when we used to drink. All the inhibitions, all the insecurities went right out the window. Not drinking, these things rear their' ugly heads in our minds. We have nothing to base our sober experiences on, other than the old drinking tapes. I know for me, I CAN'T play those old games, or I'll start drinking, doping again. So what am I supposed to do? Keep taking the baby steps, keep trudging the road, and trust that I'll be OK. Tough? Yeah. But I don't have any other choice. You're a beautiful lady, cut yourself some slack. Mark
jim5150



9/17/2009 6:36:45 AM

You are a beautiful women, Mr. right will come sooner than later, give it some time, Like me there are other guys that don't play games. Drinking is not the way to go, if u were in my life I would treat u like a queen and show u the love that u need, Don't beat ur self up so bad, u don't need that. Believe in ur self o.k. take care of ur self and be happy and enjoy life as much as u can, But ur a cutie, so remember that, have a wonderful day, Jim