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by brucemichael at 9/19/2009 5:21:59 AM
i married once, because it was time to do so.....or so i thought. no thought went into ''love'' the ingredient that is essential for such things to be long lasting and successful. japanese style marriage isnt what iam about.....love is the necessary ingredient....it doesnt always come afterward. in my case never did. but, i got a lil boy that made it all worth it. so who can complain.
in the future i will return to the past, way back to grade school and high school, when the hopeless romantic in me remembers the heart felt love i had for the lil blonde girl in third grade, or the high school sweetheart. puppy love perhaps, but, i remember the feeling. ''can'' that feeling and even if it is fairy dust.....elongate it and allow it to last forever, with the one you really love.
capture your real ''love'' and nuture it, take care of it, as something that precious has to be tended to so as to grow. do not assume once you are ''hitched'' that part if over. be so in love that you never want it to end. then you have arrived.
am i a dreamer? i certainly hope so. a mother so long ago taught me these things that i forgot. a lil boy arrived in my arms in 1997 and has since restored that knowledge of what unconditonal love is all about.
being happy and positive makes it the experience of a life time.
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