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	Back To Blog Entries ABUSIVE LOVE... by mizzgreeneyez at 10/4/2009 7:57:57 PM Ok what would u do if the man you loved and have a child with was abusive towards you..hit u, pushed u around and acts like a bully to u cuz he knows he stronger then u and over powers you... but then he acts sweet to you, shows love to you, makes you feel special and acts all sweet to u, and jus when u think things are goin good he starts agrueing with you again and takes his temper on you and ur child..but mostly u..its like a continueous cycle, nice to and mean, then nice...you love the person soooo much but is it really worth the pain??? The man takes care of you and the child, buys stuff for u and his child, and helps out sooo much for his family and the only problem is his temper and abusiveness....what would u do??? Comments thaflyestout 10/5/2009 7:49:29 AM Leave him. Any man that but his hands on a women that way is a p*ssy a** coward starr001 10/5/2009 9:33:06 AM THATS NOT LOVE ITS LUST GET OUT ON THERE mizzgreeneyez 10/6/2009 4:46:57 PM Yea true....but its sooooo hard..... dymundzangel85 10/7/2009 9:54:35 PM Ma im kinda in a similar situation and we have a child.....it only gets worse before it gets better....your child is going to see this abuse and think that growing up it is ok nah mean....yu need to get out of there and live your life....there are plenty of men out there who will love yu and treat yu with the upmost respect.....he is NOT a man if he is beating on yu. And sweetheart love doesnt hurt it isnt spose to make yu cry and leave yu feeling down. Mother to a mother get away and save yu and your childs life......break the cycle yu too beautiful 4 all that jeph78 10/8/2009 9:54:09 AM thing happen nd we dont noe y some times but the best thing to do is take a step back and look at ur life diamondgirl18 10/12/2009 7:44:23 AM Best thing is to leave him honey trust me cause things are gona get farrrr worse.. If he hit u once he's gona hit u again causehe knows he can over power u ..honeyy LEAVE HIM before its too late do it for urself and ur baby jazzyphizz 10/18/2009 10:49:20 AM Well mizzgreeneyez ima tell u exactly what to do. u stay at a family members or close frnd house to make sure ur child en u r safe. thn when he follows u (cus a man like tht will follow u) you beat the shit out of him with a frying pan, or a gulf club, or w/e HARD OBJECT u got. cus idc if he's providing for me. the second u touch me its ovr en wen u touch my child.................... it will be ur last day on earth!! for reals sonasty 10/18/2009 11:02:49 AM Look go to the cops b4 u end up dead some where this man don't love u he loves hurten u that's it put his a** away and live your life as my sister would say no d*ck is that good honey u better keep it moven hole your head and stay up love 4 real jazzyphizz 10/18/2009 11:35:23 AM u want me to do it 4 u cus girl. i know guys tht dnt joke around. just say the word.......... im serious tht shit pisses me off. ur child will be affected by this sonasty 10/18/2009 11:45:07 AM Yea jazz is right get that nigga f**ked up (asap) mizzgreeneyez 10/18/2009 11:50:44 AM Thanxs for the love guys...he can b a jerk and then the next minute like sooooo sweet..it throws me off sometimes.... jazzyphizz 10/18/2009 11:55:39 AM seriously girl im waiting for the call my number is on my profile if u need to call me msg me so i can give u the last digit. en i'll do the rest. akim 10/18/2009 12:01:51 PM ...da dude is craaaazy period !!...str8 PUNK !!!..only losers put hands on women...try that on my sisters and I'm chopping em dude's hands off...but if that is where u get your love....more power 2 u.... mizzgreeneyez 10/18/2009 12:27:58 PM Thanks...if I have anymore trouble ill def hit u up....tryin 2 get my own crib away from him so I can b happy... jazzyphizz 10/18/2009 3:42:11 PM Good en m ake sure yo baby is watched 24/7 en does ur parents know about him beatn u? mizzgreeneyez 10/18/2009 4:20:21 PM I told them some stuff, but if they ever known all of wat he did they b heart broken... jazzyphizz 10/18/2009 4:32:27 PM girl u should tell thm anyway thts wat i would do.......... wait strike tht i'd go to my two older sisters 1st cus they go hard. seriously they fight like really muscular men. anyway i just wana make sure u en ur baby will be good. so do w/e it takes to leave him =D k? mizzgreeneyez 10/18/2009 5:19:24 PM I hear u....but the thing is if I wanted to I could move bac home, but I dnt get along with my father that well and when I was living him he b so over protective of me and never let me go out unless he knows where im going and I gotta b home be4 11...shit I was 19 at the time and I asked my mom if I move bac wit my son will he do the same shit and she said yea he jus over protective...wtf? Im 23 wit a kid and he gonna pull that shit...idk I really dnt wanna deal with that anymore...I dealt with that for over 18 years and I can't stand it... jazzyphizz 10/18/2009 5:45:01 PM well i know how the overprotective father is. wen he found out i was bi he seemed distant at 1st but we've gotten closer, and now he wants me to stay home cus he found out i was switchn to guys. i understand him but he jut needs to realize im my own person. maybe u should tell ur father tht =D jazzyphizz 10/18/2009 5:45:55 PM anyway no more sad talk...... how old is ur baby? =D i bet he's soooo cute. i cant wait till i have children =D mizzgreeneyez 10/18/2009 7:16:44 PM He's 15months old....into everything...lol... jazzyphizz 10/19/2009 3:25:48 AM awwwwwww =D how cute =D sonasty 10/19/2009 4:53:44 AM Greeneyez u a strong woman boo keep pushen everything is going to be ok u just got a new friend everytime u put up a blog ill be right there to give u words of hope and wisdom stay up lovely mizzgreeneyez 10/19/2009 7:29:11 AM Thanks...... jazzyphizz 10/19/2009 2:08:37 PM =D best of luck girl. en remember since he has more physical strength ovr u. ur aloud to use ANYTHNG!! en i mean anythng! to beat the SHIT out of him. seriously jmval 10/19/2009 3:47:31 PM mizz eyes ..the nice thing is all part of the power over you ...is all manipulation....once that dont work he will use physical abuse all the time .....he emtional have u lock down u got see thru that or ur child will suffer i the long run ...and if u love u child, u have to change that ....i seen ma moms so thru it....shit i been thru it as a man think that shit is cool but it eats at ur self esteemin the long run and it will hurt ur childs spirit inthe end.....get at me u already know spicetye 10/19/2009 4:08:59 PM Trust me sweetie get out while you can because some woman don't live to type about it or speech up about it. You love your child and he's more important. The sweetness he shows you is only to keep you there as a boxing bag. Your beautiful and don't let no one try to make you feel as if you have no place to turn or push you around. jazzyphizz 10/19/2009 6:43:56 PM Trust us we know what were saying. Hell u should have us all ovr en see if he beats u thn. I Dnt Think so, no he will not. Girl im telling u ima be waiting 4 tht call so i can come ovr en beat the shit out of him! 4 real tho. © 2009 DateHookup.com Home | About Us | Contact Us | Help | Privacy Policy | Forums | Groups