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Love or Fear
by johnyboy123 at 10/6/2009 11:03:50 PM


Every decision we make will boil down to one of two choices...love or fear.

If we have love (unconditional) there is no fear. Some of us have that at some point in our lives.

If we let fear make our choice we do not let our true self out because we are hiding something (looks, money, sex etc)

Guys if we are honest with our gal especially on a first date she will know and respect you for it. Tell her the truth..It will set you free.

Most of the time she will want to be with you because of that and will accept your bad issues.

I know about fear and have lived in that part for most of my life. It traps you and keeps you away from love.


Comments

formyepona
10/12/2009 7:57:39 PM

I have been trying for a very long time to say what you have said, so simply and so perfectly. Thank you. I hope the right people see it.

funsincere
11/8/2009 10:15:28 PM

YES, be honest on the first date AND always! You want your partner to love you for who you really are. Nobody expects you to be perfect. Be yourself and you will spare future disappointmets! Yes, John, very well said ... AMEN to that!