Completion&dating love or money???

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Completion&dating love or money???
by sandysb65 at 10/9/2009 2:32:34 AM

Hi all was just thinking here to see what you all think of this subject when it comes to dating and where after awhile goes on when dating your partner and one side has the completion feelings and the other one said this isnt going to work out? How is one person supposed to feel exspecially when the other one was dating someone else and got serious with the 2nd one b/c had money etc. and didnt give the 1st one a fair shot to actually get to know the 1st one!!! I hope this all made sence here??? The bottom line one sided love and having the completion feeling and the other one just drops the 1st one like nuthing ever exsisted and the 2nd one had alot more to offer than the 1st one! Would you choose money over real love???

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d_freebird	10/9/2009 11:28:54 AM I'm not following you entirely, but you're two people with subjective responses and aside from kooky "soul mate" imaginings, there's no reason to presume the two of you will respond identically. I know I fall in love easily and am able to develop connection without much more than a corresponding interest from the girl (presuming me likey). But in some of the cases I've dated, they find it a much rarer occurrence and attach more significance to the fact that it has happened (like they're maybe one of a dozen I've felt deeply connected to, but to them it's so unusual that I must be The One. Which is really a matter of perspective and perception, not fact. Money has nothing to do with it. Though I keep on telling myself "-Next- time I will marry for money, dammit!", I'd only marry someone for money, who I'd marry broke. Which narrows that right on down.
sandysb65	10/10/2009 5:45:51 AM I am giving what you post here some thought?
fserra	10/10/2009 5:56:38 AM I recently met someone and at the end she wanted to "Play the Field" and she went after a guy with more money and the guy is still married about is spereate. So I guess a gold digger comes In all sorts of size and ages. So when someone leaves you b/c the other person has more money and better toys. Be glad b/c that person is very shallow and neother you or I should be paying for love...
sandysb65	10/10/2009 9:27:32 AM Yes you are absolutely right. But when you care about the person and what that person went through prior just dont want to him go through the disapointment again! But on the other hand you are right they are the ones that let go of us that are stable etc that we know what is more important in having a true relationship.
loveable_libra	10/10/2009 6:33:23 PM I am not quite sure what you are saying...but I can say that I WOULD choose real LOVE over money. I would never go with someone or share a relationship with someone for their money...so it real love for me. It is not about what someone has...it is the person.
sandysb65	10/11/2009 6:36:19 AM Hi Bonnie, I wish i could do my normal icoms here4you!!! Heart Angel And Exspecially Roses for ya! But yes real internal love is the most importance of all!!! Money comes & goes!!! The more you make it seems?that is more important than what is standing&waiting patiently say i love you & wanting to b n your life. But money did stood in the way!!! I am dating the person&wanting to be w/him no matter what we are doing!!! Sitting on the couch are laying on the ground just being next to him is what counts!!! Just enjoying every day w/ no complaining no yelling just totally getting along&understanding each feelings&respecting them!!! So very true What you mentioned. It is in the person what counts!!! Money just a piece of paper!!! Internal love/completion is what flips over the bill anyday!!! Knowing your partner is there for you thick n thin & visa versa your there for him!!!