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What a jerk
by saphirelady at 10/14/2009 7:36:21 PM

Okay listen up!
I've been getting tons of messages from guys who think they are God's gift to women or want to just play "how many women can I bullshit."
I realize I didn't put very much on my profile so manybe I deserve some of the crap I've been getting. Let me just set the record straight. I'm a no nonsense kind of girl who does not appreciate ANYONE trying to jerk my chain. If I don't feel comfortable talking on the phone or meeting you after one freaking email, LIVE WITH IT!!!
I also don't sit home every night on the edge of my seat waiting on the next message to come across the web. I may not log on for days on end, so If you have a problem with me not jumping through hoops to answer messages, you might want to move on to the next profile.
I realize this comes across as a top notch B*tchy attitude and many people (who bother to read this) will think the worse of me, but I'm sick of being called a F**king b*tch or worse because I happen to have a life away from internet dateing and I won't trust total strangers.


Comments

vpitt2
10/15/2009 2:44:39 AM

Amen sister! I would love to take the time to get to know you. I 'm tired of the freakin fake women who post a fake pic. just to get your email address.

ponyboy56
10/15/2009 1:57:40 PM

Hey, good for you!! There are a lot of fake people on these sites, you just have to weed them out. You know what I get? I get these web cam hoochies sending me invitations to join some " web cam " site that just wnats me to pay money to see some hoochie doing stuff that I wouldn't want to watch anyway!!! So, good for you Saphirelady, don't accept the jerks, I hope your day is blessed and the jerks leave you alone!!

ddvv
10/15/2009 3:45:05 PM

Well I think that goes both ways! Of course I have been called a F****** B**** but probably their meaning was the same. Sincere people use this type of media to trully try and meet nice people and I believe we all have the dream of meeting the soul mate. The jerks that misuse this media and people like yourself get their dues in time. Stick with it and I hope it gets better.

judc0623
10/15/2009 7:20:16 PM

Bravo!!! Well stated!!!!

arkansasgem1
10/17/2009 6:38:05 AM

I agree! I also may not sign on for a few days. It's not that I am not serious about meeting someone. But, I do have other interests and things that are very important to me.

hijustme
10/17/2009 3:27:27 PM

YOU TELLM GIRL GET ON THERE A** ITS ABOUT TIME SOMEBODY SAID SOMETHING JUSTME

chainmaileguy
10/19/2009 5:30:40 AM

Ms. Saphirelady, I'm sorry that you have to put up with that. However, since a lot of guys are jerks, and then add to that the anonymity of the internet, they soon come crawling out of the walls. No one seems to want to take the time to get to know one another anymore. Sometimes makes me think it's just not worth the trouble. I do hope that things improve for you. (though I wouldn't get my hopes up if I was you) Chris

retardedvet
10/23/2009 11:35:21 PM

Obviousely you are way too busy dancing,and dont need to be on here.Why cant you meat a guy at dance class?,sinse you are so social.sounds like a waste of your time as well as mens time.Maybe a double standard